"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
18-20 year olds this one is for you.
- Thread starter xomel
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
...why risk cancer? There's a million other places you can take your chick. Ex. Party, Action Dates and Food.xomel said:Too young to go to a bar? Take her to a hookah lounge
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mandiblard
Senior Don Juan
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Nope.Yapper said:
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
And this tip should be for anyone 16+. At all the local hookahs they dont card: i've had grisl bring their 14-15yr old female friends, no problem. Usually if there is they just get a "under 18" stamp..and no one says anything when they smoke.
But not every girl is into it. I love it, my ex loved it, and her friends love it.
And it a good place to get in a kiss: shotgunning is fun.
Calypzo
Don Juan
the ones in Las Vegas WILL card you unless you are a frequent visitor.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ValleyDJing said:
smoking hookah is totally different than smoking anything else. hookah doesnt even get you buzzed/high... there's more molasses in it than there is tobacco, and if im correct theres not even nicotine in it.
theres no reason anyone be down to hookah if they have at least smoked a few cigarettes, cigars, or weed.
the only people i can see not smoking hookah are super super christain straight edge. even then... hookah is BARELY a drug. come on now, they didnt even tell us not to smoke hookah in grade school... you know the whole anti-smoking and anti-drug talk where they even bash swishers, black-n-milds and cigars... but they dont even touch hookah.
PeterNorthisawesome
Banned
No I rather smoke salvia or ganja, which is proven to be less harmful than tabacco with tar.Cleric said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I ain't saying hookah is bad...I'm just saying just the idea of a chick smoking kinda makes em seem, trashy. And girls who don't smoke think the same thing about dudes, whether it isn't unhealthy or not.xomel said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b97/kasun/Pic217.jpg
Seriously if your under 21 hookah is awsome place to meet and takes chicks too.
http://i17.photobucket.com/albums/b97/kasun/hooka.jpg
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