"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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17yo virgin, I find girls around me(basic hoes) are waste of time?

jebach123

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Basically 17yo virgin and sick of all these "basic hoes"
I have goals, things I work daily on, a path I'm creating and I just see no point on "pursuing" a basic hoe and giving a **** about her feelings just to stick my **** in a warm ***** and lose my virginity. I'm used to girls smiling at me daily and checking me out I'm not a pretty boy but I have my **** together ,keep my back straight and I know the game, but some of these girls are just nothing but a waste of time in my eyes...

please correct my view, should I just bang those cute girls that are open and aren't that "hard to get(long term and then sex)" or should I get myself into a relationship? I just want to talk to you guys about this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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marmel75

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Maybe they feel the same way about you.
 

foreverAFC

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when i was in highschool and college, i had that same attitude, i would blow off the sluttier girls that wanted me cause i thought i would just wait and probobly meet ms.perfect later on that night at the party i was going to or whatever, back then i thought i was too good for them and now that im in my 30s and i look back on all those chances i had to have some fun i really regret it, i wish i wasnt so uptight back then, you dont have to marry these girls just have fun with them, dont even bang them cause if you get one pregnant your life is over just get tons of oral and handj0bs from them and makeout and have fun as much as you can. take every opportunity that comes your way and just have fun man, when you get older those opportunities may dry up. if a chick is just too nasty and it turns you off i get it, but dont blow off decent looking girls just cause you think they are slutty or hos or they arent totally perfect for you, those are the ones you can have lots of fun with
 
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Infern0

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Basically 17yo virgin and sick of all these "basic hoes"
I have goals, things I work daily on, a path I'm creating and I just see no point on "pursuing" a basic hoe and giving a **** about her feelings just to stick my **** in a warm ***** and lose my virginity. I'm used to girls smiling at me daily and checking me out I'm not a pretty boy but I have my **** together ,keep my back straight and I know the game, but some of these girls are just nothing but a waste of time in my eyes...

please correct my view, should I just bang those cute girls that are open and aren't that "hard to get(long term and then sex)" or should I get myself into a relationship? I just want to talk to you guys about this.
Do you know what I think?

I think you are all ****

I think you don't know how to, and can't get girls and this is the story you tell yourself to cope. You wouldn't be on this site otherwise would you.

Drop the act, drop the false ego because if it doesn't fool me, it doesn't fool women "they can see through a guy putting on an act even better than a guy like me who has seen it time and time again"

You look like a little twerp with a quite amusing attitude problem, i'm not hating on you, i'm giving you brutal honesty.

Read the DJ bible, and start implementing. Or keep fronting, and get off this site and stop wasting our time.
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Gain experience. So what if they're sluts? You don't have to have feelings for them. Gain experience. Nothing wrong with that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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