"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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17yo virgin, I find girls around me(basic hoes) are waste of time?

jebach123

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Basically 17yo virgin and sick of all these "basic hoes"
I have goals, things I work daily on, a path I'm creating and I just see no point on "pursuing" a basic hoe and giving a **** about her feelings just to stick my **** in a warm ***** and lose my virginity. I'm used to girls smiling at me daily and checking me out I'm not a pretty boy but I have my **** together ,keep my back straight and I know the game, but some of these girls are just nothing but a waste of time in my eyes...

please correct my view, should I just bang those cute girls that are open and aren't that "hard to get(long term and then sex)" or should I get myself into a relationship? I just want to talk to you guys about this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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marmel75

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Maybe they feel the same way about you.
 

foreverAFC

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when i was in highschool and college, i had that same attitude, i would blow off the sluttier girls that wanted me cause i thought i would just wait and probobly meet ms.perfect later on that night at the party i was going to or whatever, back then i thought i was too good for them and now that im in my 30s and i look back on all those chances i had to have some fun i really regret it, i wish i wasnt so uptight back then, you dont have to marry these girls just have fun with them, dont even bang them cause if you get one pregnant your life is over just get tons of oral and handj0bs from them and makeout and have fun as much as you can. take every opportunity that comes your way and just have fun man, when you get older those opportunities may dry up. if a chick is just too nasty and it turns you off i get it, but dont blow off decent looking girls just cause you think they are slutty or hos or they arent totally perfect for you, those are the ones you can have lots of fun with
 
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Infern0

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Basically 17yo virgin and sick of all these "basic hoes"
I have goals, things I work daily on, a path I'm creating and I just see no point on "pursuing" a basic hoe and giving a **** about her feelings just to stick my **** in a warm ***** and lose my virginity. I'm used to girls smiling at me daily and checking me out I'm not a pretty boy but I have my **** together ,keep my back straight and I know the game, but some of these girls are just nothing but a waste of time in my eyes...

please correct my view, should I just bang those cute girls that are open and aren't that "hard to get(long term and then sex)" or should I get myself into a relationship? I just want to talk to you guys about this.
Do you know what I think?

I think you are all ****

I think you don't know how to, and can't get girls and this is the story you tell yourself to cope. You wouldn't be on this site otherwise would you.

Drop the act, drop the false ego because if it doesn't fool me, it doesn't fool women "they can see through a guy putting on an act even better than a guy like me who has seen it time and time again"

You look like a little twerp with a quite amusing attitude problem, i'm not hating on you, i'm giving you brutal honesty.

Read the DJ bible, and start implementing. Or keep fronting, and get off this site and stop wasting our time.
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Gain experience. So what if they're sluts? You don't have to have feelings for them. Gain experience. Nothing wrong with that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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