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[Kyontate17]

hey guys what does it mean when a girl tells you that she loves u but we cant be together because she has problems?

 

[Igetit!]

hey guys what does it mean when a girl tells you that she loves u but we cant be together because she has problems?

She means she loves you as a person,as who you are,but sexually,she feels no attraction for you.

Like I said in another thread,if a woman says something to you that logically makes no sense,then she's feeding you a line.

She said she can't be with you because she has problems. Then the logical conclusion would be as soon as these "problems" are solved or taken care of,then you two can be together,right?

It's a crock dude.

If men and women couldn't be together because of the problems in their lives,then the human race would be extinct.

Everybody has some sort of problem or issue to deal with a some point in their lives.


Don't be shocked or surprised if you suddenly find out that she's seeing someone else in the next couple of weeks.


The problem here is there's a lack of sexual attraction/chemistry on her part towards you. Trust me,if the attraction was really there and present,she'd be all over you,even if you were to add to the amount of "problems" she has.

I don't really know the situation here,so it's hard to advise you on what to do to help raise her attraction level for you.

Therefore,I'll guess.

Go to the bottom of this reply,and click on the word "THIS!".

Don't worry,it's not 5 pages of a thread to read,just one single reply.

Follow those instructions TO THE LETTER.

That should help to raise her interest in you,however,if there were more background given on the relationship,we'd probably be able to pinpoint EXACTLY what you need to do to turn this thing around.

 

[Deryk]

...girls also say they love friends and hug each other all the time.... faces it
we're different from them. but yeah I agree with Igetit! if she truely loved you
no problem would stand in the way of it

 

[Kyontate17]

i will tell u the problem if ur willing to help?

 

[Igetit!]

i will tell u the problem if ur willing to help?

If we're willing to help?

Of course we are.

What,you think we want to see guys hurt or get rejected by women?

You think we want to make fun of you or something?

This forum is the only connection most of us will ever have to each other,and it's anonymus.

You getting the girl or not will not hinder or help our lives one way or the other.


That's why we're here,to aid each other where we can.


Go ahead and tell us what the problem is,but PLEASE,PLEASE,be exact.

Please include...

1:How long you've known this girl.
2:If you are currently dating her,or still trying to date her.
3:How often you two talk and WHAT YOU TALK ABOUT.

If nothing else,PLEASE answer number 3 ACCURATELY.

Include all this when you say what the problem is.

 

[Kyontate17]

well me an her been dating 5 months..but she cant have a boyfriend at all,so she broke up wit me 2 months ago but she was cryin because she broke up wit me because of her mom doesnt allow it and when she calls me but its short because she cant get caught and she sneaky has to get the phone because her mom caught her last time and it wasnt pretty.last week skool started and she called me a jerk because i didnt talk to her but i said hi.all week she looked depress on thursday i sat right next to her on the bus but didnt talk to her.she got mad and cryin and said "so u dont know me anymore" i ask wats wrong she was like whatever so i said fine then dont tell me,so we got off the bus going toour separate ways then she called my name we was talking she told me she was sorry and that she still has the winnie the pooh picture i drew her.i told her can we talk about this at home she said ok.she called me and told me that she has family problems and the doesnt like going home.she called me later talking about getting together,so i accepted.the next day it was going good an then she will get mad really easy.she wasnt like this before.then today she called me sayin "hey i love u and all but we cant be together because i have problems" i said ok,then she says "hey i love u"and yea i love u too.the end.

If we're willing to help?

Of course we are.

What,you think we want to see guys hurt or get rejected by women?

You think we want to make fun of you or something?

This forum is the only connection most of us will ever have to each other,and it's anonymus.

You getting the girl or not will not hinder or help our lives one way or the other.


That's why we're here,to aid each other where we can.


Go ahead and tell us what the problem is,but PLEASE,PLEASE,be exact.

Please include...

1:How long you've known this girl.
2:If you are currently dating her,or still trying to date her.
3:How often you two talk and WHAT YOU TALK ABOUT.

If nothing else,PLEASE answer number 3 ACCURATELY.

Include all this when you say what the problem is.

 

[Igetit!]

well me an her been dating 5 months..but she cant have a boyfriend at all,so she broke up wit me 2 months ago but she was cryin because she broke up wit me because of her mom doesnt allow it and when she calls me but its short because she cant get caught and she sneaky has to get the phone because her mom caught her last time and it wasnt pretty.last week skool started and she called me a jerk because i didnt talk to her but i said hi.all week she looked depress on thursday i sat right next to her on the bus but didnt talk to her.she got mad and cryin and said "so u dont know me anymore" i ask wats wrong she was like whatever so i said fine then dont tell me,so we got off the bus going toour separate ways then she called my name we was talking she told me she was sorry and that she still has the winnie the pooh picture i drew her.i told her can we talk about this at home she said ok.she called me and told me that she has family problems and the doesnt like going home.she called me later talking about getting together,so i accepted.the next day it was going good an then she will get mad really easy.she wasnt like this before.then today she called me sayin "hey i love u and all but we cant be together because i have problems" i said ok,then she says "hey i love u"and yea i love u too.the end.

Hmm. Remember what I said in my first post about using this information in my signature? Don't do it. That doesn't apply here. You have a whole different problem on your hands with this girl.


This may be one of the few times that I would say to listen to what she's saying. I thought she broke up with you because she no longer liked you,but it seems like it really is because of her parents.

If that's the case,then there's nothing you can do. I mean she already got jumped on by her mother for having a boyfriend,so she broke up with you not because she wanted to,but because of the pressure put on her by her parents.

It's actually rare,very rare when a girl gives a reason for breaking up with someone,and she's actually telling the flat out,direct truth.

No games,no playing around,just cold hard truth.

Looks like that's what going on here.

I don't know what type of info you were looking for to help you out,I mean if her parents won't permit her to date right now,there's not much else you can do,but just move on.

There's no point to you having to be single/alone because her parents won't allow her to date.

 

[Kyontate17]

ok thanks man i needed that.

 

[Scar Tissue]

how old is she?

She sounds very immature; not ready to date.

 

[Kyontate17]

yea she's young dude.

 

[eaglez1177]

There's no point to you having to be single/alone because her parents won't allow her to date.

Excellent point, take that valuable advice!

 

[evoken]

It means she's lying.

 

[Scar Tissue]

It means she's lying.

i agree with this.

 

[Spade]

lmao, it means shes a dude