SeymourCake
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Is it worth paying extra money to find out who they are?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
16 women like me on OKCupid...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
VikingKing
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No they do not like you. No No No man. I have a pof account, and every day in my spam mail, i get these, so and so wants to meet you, like 5 a day.
You know why I get these emails. Its like that meet me thingy. It shows a picture of some one, and it gives three options. Would you like to meet this person, their options are , yes, no, maybe.
Some of them click yes because they think I'm physically attractive.
No dude. Online dating is full of whorves, and women looking for validation.
You know why I get these emails. Its like that meet me thingy. It shows a picture of some one, and it gives three options. Would you like to meet this person, their options are , yes, no, maybe.
Some of them click yes because they think I'm physically attractive.
No dude. Online dating is full of whorves, and women looking for validation.
Actually OP you dont have to spend money. What happens is that when a woman likes you, a number appears next to your Quickmatch. Then all you have to do is cycle through your quickmatch listings.
The women who have recently liked you appear early in your list. If you rate them 4 or 5 stars, you will mutual match. If you dont rate them high enough, then you wont know who liked you. In which case it would matter.
Thats how you find out who likes you. OKCupid doesnt scam people with the Like feature. Paying to see who likes you right away is just for those who want more features or lack patience.
The women who have recently liked you appear early in your list. If you rate them 4 or 5 stars, you will mutual match. If you dont rate them high enough, then you wont know who liked you. In which case it would matter.
Thats how you find out who likes you. OKCupid doesnt scam people with the Like feature. Paying to see who likes you right away is just for those who want more features or lack patience.