SeymourCake
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Is it worth paying extra money to find out who they are?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
16 women like me on OKCupid...
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VikingKing
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No they do not like you. No No No man. I have a pof account, and every day in my spam mail, i get these, so and so wants to meet you, like 5 a day.
You know why I get these emails. Its like that meet me thingy. It shows a picture of some one, and it gives three options. Would you like to meet this person, their options are , yes, no, maybe.
Some of them click yes because they think I'm physically attractive.
No dude. Online dating is full of whorves, and women looking for validation.
You know why I get these emails. Its like that meet me thingy. It shows a picture of some one, and it gives three options. Would you like to meet this person, their options are , yes, no, maybe.
Some of them click yes because they think I'm physically attractive.
No dude. Online dating is full of whorves, and women looking for validation.
Actually OP you dont have to spend money. What happens is that when a woman likes you, a number appears next to your Quickmatch. Then all you have to do is cycle through your quickmatch listings.
The women who have recently liked you appear early in your list. If you rate them 4 or 5 stars, you will mutual match. If you dont rate them high enough, then you wont know who liked you. In which case it would matter.
Thats how you find out who likes you. OKCupid doesnt scam people with the Like feature. Paying to see who likes you right away is just for those who want more features or lack patience.
The women who have recently liked you appear early in your list. If you rate them 4 or 5 stars, you will mutual match. If you dont rate them high enough, then you wont know who liked you. In which case it would matter.
Thats how you find out who likes you. OKCupid doesnt scam people with the Like feature. Paying to see who likes you right away is just for those who want more features or lack patience.