SeymourCake
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Is it worth paying extra money to find out who they are?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
16 women like me on OKCupid...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
VikingKing
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No they do not like you. No No No man. I have a pof account, and every day in my spam mail, i get these, so and so wants to meet you, like 5 a day.
You know why I get these emails. Its like that meet me thingy. It shows a picture of some one, and it gives three options. Would you like to meet this person, their options are , yes, no, maybe.
Some of them click yes because they think I'm physically attractive.
No dude. Online dating is full of whorves, and women looking for validation.
You know why I get these emails. Its like that meet me thingy. It shows a picture of some one, and it gives three options. Would you like to meet this person, their options are , yes, no, maybe.
Some of them click yes because they think I'm physically attractive.
No dude. Online dating is full of whorves, and women looking for validation.
Actually OP you dont have to spend money. What happens is that when a woman likes you, a number appears next to your Quickmatch. Then all you have to do is cycle through your quickmatch listings.
The women who have recently liked you appear early in your list. If you rate them 4 or 5 stars, you will mutual match. If you dont rate them high enough, then you wont know who liked you. In which case it would matter.
Thats how you find out who likes you. OKCupid doesnt scam people with the Like feature. Paying to see who likes you right away is just for those who want more features or lack patience.
The women who have recently liked you appear early in your list. If you rate them 4 or 5 stars, you will mutual match. If you dont rate them high enough, then you wont know who liked you. In which case it would matter.
Thats how you find out who likes you. OKCupid doesnt scam people with the Like feature. Paying to see who likes you right away is just for those who want more features or lack patience.