"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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120 day dopamine reduction

Josh Davidson

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I found out from my doctor that my body produces too much dopamine. I will use this thread to report on my 120 day journey of lowering my dopamine levels and any foods, habits, et cetera that will lower my dopamine levels as well as habits to avoid. I think daily reporting of my progress on this forum will keep me on the right path. I will also report any failures. Tomorrow is day 1. If you're reading this and want to start your own journey to reduce your dopamine levels or want to provide any tips, feel free to do so.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What symptoms did you see the doctor for in order for him to come with that type of diagnosis? What is is the effects of too much dopamine having on your system that its deserves medical attention?
 
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I'm highly interested in this thread. I look forward to your future reports.
 

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What symptoms did you see the doctor for in order for him to come with that type of diagnosis? What is is the effects of too much dopamine having on your system that its deserves medical attention?

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The doctor saw me for psychosis and too much dopamine led to hallucinations.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey Josh,

I was curious how this is (or was) going. When you get a moment, keep us posted.

Thanks
 
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