"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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120 day dopamine reduction

Josh Davidson

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I found out from my doctor that my body produces too much dopamine. I will use this thread to report on my 120 day journey of lowering my dopamine levels and any foods, habits, et cetera that will lower my dopamine levels as well as habits to avoid. I think daily reporting of my progress on this forum will keep me on the right path. I will also report any failures. Tomorrow is day 1. If you're reading this and want to start your own journey to reduce your dopamine levels or want to provide any tips, feel free to do so.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What symptoms did you see the doctor for in order for him to come with that type of diagnosis? What is is the effects of too much dopamine having on your system that its deserves medical attention?
 
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I'm highly interested in this thread. I look forward to your future reports.
 

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What symptoms did you see the doctor for in order for him to come with that type of diagnosis? What is is the effects of too much dopamine having on your system that its deserves medical attention?

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The doctor saw me for psychosis and too much dopamine led to hallucinations.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey Josh,

I was curious how this is (or was) going. When you get a moment, keep us posted.

Thanks
 
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