Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
No, asymptomatic viral shedding can happen any time, although it does decrease over the years following initial outbreak. Read the link I posted.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
an outbreak is the fastest way to spread it.dot said:So are you saying, the only time that you can catch it when they don't have an outbreak, is in the initial 2 week period of them catching it?
None of those. It looks like a pimple and its isolated, no other bumps are around it. Im getting a physical tomorrow so ill have them check it out.penkitten said:do you have a fever?
do you have swollen lymph nodes?
did the bump begin as a hard knot under the skin, that rose up, and now looks like a single chicken pox?
does is ache in horrible pain?
if you answered no to all of those, i bet it is just an ingrown hair or boil.
which every one gets at one point or another.
True, but a good rough estimate is to figure that if 70% of people caught it with no symptoms present, then a person with herpes is contagious without showing symptoms 70% of the time, and that person shows symptoms 30% of the time.penkitten said:an outbreak is the fastest way to spread it.
no one knows how often you can catch it from assymtomatic shedding or not having an outbreak at the time, but they do say it can happen.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
an infected ingrown hair can look like a zit and sting a little when touched.oakraiderz2 said:None of those. It looks like a pimple and its isolated, no other bumps are around it. Im getting a physical tomorrow so ill have them check it out.
Sick. At least its not something too bad.penkitten said:an infected ingrown hair can look like a zit and sting a little when touched.
you must pop the white part out, eww
then use clean tweezers to dig the hair out.
sometimes they are a pain in the azz.
so no matter what it depends on our ability to read them. wow. and even then they might not even know about it.MDgood said:True, but a good rough estimate is to figure that if 70% of people caught it with no symptoms present, then a person with herpes is contagious without showing symptoms 70% of the time, and that person shows symptoms 30% of the time.
It's like if they show symptoms (open oozing genital lesions) 4 days out of the month, then they're actually shedding 4/30%, or 13 to 14 days out o the month. You hook up once with a girl like that and you risk a 50% chance of being exposed to the virus (though not actually a 50% chance of catching it).dot said:so no matter what it depends on our ability to read them. wow. and even then they might not even know about it.
any mucuous membrane so that means kissing too.
the worst part is no signs, even on the girl's part.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.