10's down the garbage

[doctor1996]

I'm just going to delete their numbers. **** them, I'll find more girls. I'm not desperate. I'm good

 

[doctor1996]

Also, I don't think it's the way I dress. I have expensive clothing. My jacket goes for 600$. Shoes go for about 200-250... Shirts are about 75$ a piece and my car is worth 30k not that expensive but it's pretty good for a 20 year old. My parents are rich. I don't tell girls that though.

I think like you all said, rapport first. And move on. Don't act like a loser. My confidence was a little shaken yesterdat

 

[Masculinity]

Based on their texts, these women look like real pieces of work for any DJ. They seem to text with with the attention span and writing skills of a house fly.

 

[doctor1996]

Based on their texts, these women look like real pieces of work for any DJ. They seem to text with with the attention span and writing skills of a house fly.

Exactly. I'm just going to move on.

 

[derby1]

stop having these EXTREME female mood swings OP ie "Im just going to delete there numbers" if im right its still under 24 hours since your last reply from this woman ? pull yaself together!!!!!!! she owes you nothing she hasnt led you on or the like.... just dont do any pursue texts ffs whatever you do

 

[doctor1996]

you will never get anywhere with women by being socially inept. thats chick kryptonite. that should be your main priority to work on.

that eliot rodger guy everyone keeps bringing up? that was his problem. he was a social retard. it was that simple.

even on this forum you can seperate the men that have experience and good social skills just by the way they write.

men are logical by nature and too a FAULT. which becomes counter-productive with teh wiminz. some guys here are debating with essays and powerpoints just to get their point across. theres no style in their writing, no type of attitude, theyre as dry as the ginas in the world around them. i wouldnt ever bring one of these guys with me to women, imagine how women must feel about them lmao

start talking to people. to everyone. for no reason. just learn to be a positive, pleasant person. say good morning to the construction worker on your commute. ask a cashier or waitress how her day is going.learn some empathy. when people talk to you, dont give opinions or offer advice. just listen to them. learn what things are socially acceptable to talk about and what is taboo. pay attention to peoples emotional states etc etc theres so much you can do to fix your social awakrdness. like anything else you just need to practice it

No see. I can carry out a conversation with copious amounts of people. Without it being awkward. When I'm typing on forums, I typically do not care for my writing style or grammar. But when it comes to academic papers, and such, I will write like a genius. One of the things I noticed people telling me is that, I'm very well spoken, and usually use big words.. Or that I'm too formal. But this is the way I am. So if I come off that way to some stupid chick, they would be turned off or think I'm a nerd. Maybe some may like it.

I'm 6"1, 150 lb, and look a little Indian - maybe I may be stereotyped within the first interaction.

I was the guy that would study 8-10 hours a day last semester. Despite that, my conversational skills are not bad. I've also been told I'm very mature for my age. Hence, I have a lot of friends that are in the masters program.

The girls that seem to be interested in me are typically around their mid twenties. Not many around the age of 18-20..

I think my issue is, I overthink everything.

 

[doctor1996]

so would you rather expand your options of women who like you for not being so proper and formal all the time or are you ok with limiting yourself and waiting around for only those types?

I would like to expand my options, but that is the difficult part.

 

[jaymbrs]

So you're rich, a genius writer, over 6 feet tall, studying to be a doctor, and very well spoken yet you're on a forum asking for assistance in getting women. Anyone else see something wrong with this?

 

[doctor1996]

So you're rich, a genius writer, over 6 feet tall, studying to be a doctor, and very well spoken yet you're on a forum asking for assistance in getting women. Anyone else see something wrong with this?

i dont know whats wrong with me

 

[doctor1996]

So you're rich, a genius writer, over 6 feet tall, studying to be a doctor, and very well spoken yet you're on a forum asking for assistance in getting women. Anyone else see something wrong with this?

maybe im not that attractive as i carry myself to be then

 

[Macaframalama]

i dont know whats wrong with me

Seems like you have the business side of life down pat, but struggle with the pleasure aspect. Do you ever cut loose in social situations?

 

[Macaframalama]

maybe im not that attractive as i carry myself to be then

Dude, unless that rationale is causing you to come off as pompous and arrogant, kill that noise.

 

[doctor1996]

Dude, unless that rational ..

 

[oOh Nasty]

No see. I can carry out a conversation with copious amounts of people. Without it being awkward. When I'm typing on forums, I typically do not care for my writing style or grammar. But when it comes to academic papers, and such, I will write like a genius. One of the things I noticed people telling me is that, I'm very well spoken, and usually use big words.. Or that I'm too formal. But this is the way I am. So if I come off that way to some stupid chick, they would be turned off or think I'm a nerd. Maybe some may like it.

I'm 6"1, 150 lb, and look a little Indian - maybe I may be stereotyped within the first interaction.

I was the guy that would study 8-10 hours a day last semester. Despite that, my conversational skills are not bad. I've also been told I'm very mature for my age. Hence, I have a lot of friends that are in the masters program.

The girls that seem to be interested in me are typically around their mid twenties. Not many around the age of 18-20..

I think my issue is, I overthink everything.

Talk to women the same way you'd talk to your little baby sisters. All of that formality and technical jibberish is going to bore them. One thing that the analytical types have a hard time grasping is that conversation with women needs to pierce their minds and emotions. Weren't you playful and spontaneous as a child? Nothing's changed.

This doesn't mean you need to be silly or dumb yourself down. It just means, you need to have some restraint on your formal and technical tendencies. It means that if she says something that makes you want to start explaining something in detail, just don't do it. It also means to start speaking less and stop using formal "filler" sentences. If I could critique the last image of your text you posted, I'd say that she was too cool and you were too caring. She basically texted 3 and 1/4th words to you in comparison to what you texted. From this point on, I'd guess the rest of her texts are her just being cordial.

Your first step is to stop thinking that women who are bored of your conversations are "stupid." I mean...there's a chance that they actually are stupid, but you have to remember that they're just responding to you. Unless a chick is a real nerd herself, the majority of women will find your way of speaking pretty boring and perhaps a bit try hard.

 

[doctor1996]

then its time to stop telling yourself "this is just who i am"

its very possible to change the way you think of yourself.

"hey, i can be fun and not all serious all the time, why not?"

as you think, you shall become

personality is malleable. our environment and experiences shapes it. but we can also shape it ourselves.

maybe make some friends that are hip and cool and not in the same circle as your pre-med minded academic buddies. (im not saying hang out with losers)

just hang out with guys that are good with girls. there is no better teacher than watching how its done.

although there is chick groupies for everything (even Dungeons and Dragons) save the serious formal stuff for your profession. it hardly matters with women

Its going to take time, but I'm going to work on it.

 

[doctor1996]

Seems like you have the business side of life down pat, but struggle with the pleasure aspect. Do you ever cut loose in social situations?

Try to

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Seems like you have the business side of life down pat, but struggle with the pleasure aspect. Do you ever cut loose in social situations?

What business side?

He's a schoolboy whose never earned a dollar or worked a day in his life.

 

[doctor1996]

What business side?

He's a schoolboy whose never earned a dollar or worked a day in his life.

I wasn't in the situation where I had to.

If I had to, I would.

 

[Macaframalama]

What business side?

He's a schoolboy whose never earned a dollar or worked a day in his life.

Was referring to his handling his business and ambition in regards to his studies and pursuing his career.

 

[jaymbrs]

maybe im not that attractive as i carry myself to be then

In all seriousness, have you ever thought about finishing med school then concentrating on women? We all have to take some time away from women in order to order to reach personal goals and unfortunately I've seen women stall or even derail a guy's future. You're young dude. I wouldn't go too far out of your way just to get chicks.