"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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100 DIRECT PUBLIC APPROACHES JOURNAL B4 Feb 1st 2008

YoungSir4sho

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Yea so Originally I was going to do 300 approaches b4 feb. I was too busy tho, so wont b doing that. Now I will b doing 100 approaches outside at public places/Train Stations

One of the reasons cuz I want to get the approach anxiety gone with b4 feb. 2nd, would like to have a few dates open for V-day. 3rd, I jus want to see how many number closes/F-closes I can get out of 100.

So I will update this regularly till feb 1st YA DIG
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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demonic

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Lemme be the first to wish you good luck on your journey :)
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol nah none of that hi stuff then bye. My plan is to pick them up/number close them for all of my approaches. Im either going to say how u doin to start the conversation then go on wit my game. Or say Let me ask u a ? then say r u single. That is the plan right now n I will start tom. Im always up for feedbac,postive or negative.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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My advice is to read this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133950&page=4

my former sarge buddy. We went direct on our approaches. You will need a lot of ballz in order to do this. You are not going to use deception or lies, you are going to be yourself. You will tell em how you feel a minute or so after you open,and if they don't like it NEXT! no wasting time on any girl your time is precious. This is the attitude you need. After you do 15 or so approaches you will feel like you have ballz of steel and you do! most men are afraid to do direct approaching which is why we have mystery method etc.

you also need to read this
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/ (find the mode one book)
 

YoungSir4sho

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Im not gonna lie in here n say I did 30 approaches so far since monday. I havent done not one yet. A combination of trying to get rid of my cold/ fear of rejection.

Tho my goal still is to do 100 approaches b4 feb so im gonna have to do at least 20 approaches a day starting later today hopefully. Lol just sayin all of this stuff like doin 100 appraoches is nothing sounds easy till u are actually out there in real life. Any advice would b appreciated
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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