"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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100 DIRECT PUBLIC APPROACHES JOURNAL B4 Feb 1st 2008

YoungSir4sho

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Yea so Originally I was going to do 300 approaches b4 feb. I was too busy tho, so wont b doing that. Now I will b doing 100 approaches outside at public places/Train Stations

One of the reasons cuz I want to get the approach anxiety gone with b4 feb. 2nd, would like to have a few dates open for V-day. 3rd, I jus want to see how many number closes/F-closes I can get out of 100.

So I will update this regularly till feb 1st YA DIG
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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demonic

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Lemme be the first to wish you good luck on your journey :)
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol nah none of that hi stuff then bye. My plan is to pick them up/number close them for all of my approaches. Im either going to say how u doin to start the conversation then go on wit my game. Or say Let me ask u a ? then say r u single. That is the plan right now n I will start tom. Im always up for feedbac,postive or negative.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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My advice is to read this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133950&page=4

my former sarge buddy. We went direct on our approaches. You will need a lot of ballz in order to do this. You are not going to use deception or lies, you are going to be yourself. You will tell em how you feel a minute or so after you open,and if they don't like it NEXT! no wasting time on any girl your time is precious. This is the attitude you need. After you do 15 or so approaches you will feel like you have ballz of steel and you do! most men are afraid to do direct approaching which is why we have mystery method etc.

you also need to read this
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/ (find the mode one book)
 

YoungSir4sho

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Im not gonna lie in here n say I did 30 approaches so far since monday. I havent done not one yet. A combination of trying to get rid of my cold/ fear of rejection.

Tho my goal still is to do 100 approaches b4 feb so im gonna have to do at least 20 approaches a day starting later today hopefully. Lol just sayin all of this stuff like doin 100 appraoches is nothing sounds easy till u are actually out there in real life. Any advice would b appreciated
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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