"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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100 DIRECT PUBLIC APPROACHES JOURNAL B4 Feb 1st 2008

YoungSir4sho

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Yea so Originally I was going to do 300 approaches b4 feb. I was too busy tho, so wont b doing that. Now I will b doing 100 approaches outside at public places/Train Stations

One of the reasons cuz I want to get the approach anxiety gone with b4 feb. 2nd, would like to have a few dates open for V-day. 3rd, I jus want to see how many number closes/F-closes I can get out of 100.

So I will update this regularly till feb 1st YA DIG
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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demonic

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Lemme be the first to wish you good luck on your journey :)
 

YoungSir4sho

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Lol nah none of that hi stuff then bye. My plan is to pick them up/number close them for all of my approaches. Im either going to say how u doin to start the conversation then go on wit my game. Or say Let me ask u a ? then say r u single. That is the plan right now n I will start tom. Im always up for feedbac,postive or negative.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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My advice is to read this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133950&page=4

my former sarge buddy. We went direct on our approaches. You will need a lot of ballz in order to do this. You are not going to use deception or lies, you are going to be yourself. You will tell em how you feel a minute or so after you open,and if they don't like it NEXT! no wasting time on any girl your time is precious. This is the attitude you need. After you do 15 or so approaches you will feel like you have ballz of steel and you do! most men are afraid to do direct approaching which is why we have mystery method etc.

you also need to read this
http://www.direct-method.com/invisionboard/ (find the mode one book)
 

YoungSir4sho

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Im not gonna lie in here n say I did 30 approaches so far since monday. I havent done not one yet. A combination of trying to get rid of my cold/ fear of rejection.

Tho my goal still is to do 100 approaches b4 feb so im gonna have to do at least 20 approaches a day starting later today hopefully. Lol just sayin all of this stuff like doin 100 appraoches is nothing sounds easy till u are actually out there in real life. Any advice would b appreciated
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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