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Thanks. Unfortunately it's been somewhat of a waste of time posting all of them FR's lol.
I suspected this forum to be much busier and was looking forward to advice and feedback from experiences PUA's
Oh, you were looking for advice?
I thought you were trying to serve as a role model and inspiration to us all!
 

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I usually skimread. This is a dense thread. I made a post in it, which you didn't reply to.

I assumed that you didn't want to chat. Pretty basic.

Now you keep complaining that people are not replying. And that's annoying.
 

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Great thread, character note.

My small bit of wisdom to impart is don’t be afraid to be aggressive. Of course calibration is needed, but I noticed that when you went with your gut man instincts you were much more successful.

You have a good attitude and you understand when to eject which are two points that lots of guys don’t get.

Not every interaction is going to be a good one.

There are probably some things you can smooth over, but your instincts are there.

The other part is learning how to weed out girls with no interest before even interacting. It’s one of the hard parts because it goes against the concept of not being self-limiting as well as the ego, but it can save time and effort and improve the success ratio.
 

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Great thread, character note.

My small bit of wisdom to impart is don’t be afraid to be aggressive. Of course calibration is needed, but I noticed that when you went with your gut man instincts you were much more successful. .
Yeah, although there's maybe some confirmation bias at play. I would naturally be more aggressive when my instincts tell me that she is attracted

You have a good attitude and you understand when to eject which are two points that lots of guys don’t get..
Thanks. Although i'm still guilty of ejecting too early at times, often a result of feeling stifled, not being able to think of anything to say, sensing that she if maybe feeling awkward and then just ejecting to avoid us both embarrassment lol. Ejecting early when it's obvious she hates me is OK (rolling her eyes, flat out ignoring me, telling me she's not interested, very hostile body language etc), but ejecting early when the only IOD that i'm getting is one that's almost to be expected when talking too a stranger (such as one word answers and not really 'helping' with the conversation at the start) is more of a crime. I guess there's a happy medium.

Not every interaction is going to be a good one.

There are probably some things you can smooth over, but your instincts are there.
I still struggle to 'hook' the set. I know that 'game' isn't magic, but I still feel that I only 'hook' the girls who are into me from the second I say 'hi'. (What roosh calls 'pre minute attraction' in his new book) which I feel should be able to be improved upon! I'm aware that looks play a major role, but I still feel that there are things that should help (routines/better material?) in terms of 'game'. But I feel that most of what I've learned really doesn't seem to live up to the hype (cold reads etc).
Also, escalation is still difficult for me (UNLESS it's pretty clear that she's into me). But some interactions we're chatting and she's not trying to get away, but I just don't sense any attraction which makes it so hard to start escalating. But in terms of courage, but also exactly hw best to start doing it! I think I've got a 100% 'awkward rejection rate' in the past when it comes to escalation on girls who aren't giving me very clear IOIs!

The other part is learning how to weed out girls with no interest before even interacting. It’s one of the hard parts because it goes against the concept of not being self-limiting as well as the ego, but it can save time and effort and improve the success ratio. .
I've never really played around much with screening. If I only approached girls who were giving me the eye or whatever, i'd only make lke 1 approach per year lol
 

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Yeah, although there's maybe some confirmation bias at play. I would naturally be more aggressive when my instincts tell me that she is attracted



Thanks. Although i'm still guilty of ejecting too early at times, often a result of feeling stifled, not being able to think of anything to say, sensing that she if maybe feeling awkward and then just ejecting to avoid us both embarrassment lol. Ejecting early when it's obvious she hates me is OK (rolling her eyes, flat out ignoring me, telling me she's not interested, very hostile body language etc), but ejecting early when the only IOD that i'm getting is one that's almost to be expected when talking too a stranger (such as one word answers and not really 'helping' with the conversation at the start) is more of a crime. I guess there's a happy medium.



I still struggle to 'hook' the set. I know that 'game' isn't magic, but I still feel that I only 'hook' the girls who are into me from the second I say 'hi'. (What roosh calls 'pre minute attraction' in his new book) which I feel should be able to be improved upon! I'm aware that looks play a major role, but I still feel that there are things that should help (routines/better material?) in terms of 'game'. But I feel that most of what I've learned really doesn't seem to live up to the hype (cold reads etc).
Also, escalation is still difficult for me (UNLESS it's pretty clear that she's into me). But some interactions we're chatting and she's not trying to get away, but I just don't sense any attraction which makes it so hard to start escalating. But in terms of courage, but also exactly hw best to start doing it! I think I've got a 100% 'awkward rejection rate' in the past when it comes to escalation on girls who aren't giving me very clear IOIs!



I've never really played around much with screening. If I only approached girls who were giving me the eye or whatever, i'd only make lke 1 approach per year lol

It’s natural to be aggressive when you feel reciprocation. The hard part is maintains that aggressiveness when you feel like you are carrying the interaction.

Part of improving is learning techniques that work for you that put the impetus on the woman to respond. There are always more ways to skin a cat so to speak.

It’s only ejecting early if you felt that somehow you could have continued the interaction and it was going to go somewhere. Where most guys fail is that their neediness and/or egos take over and they waste time on a lost cause.

That being said it’s good to practice on trying to unlock women who are being highly resistant now and then as it can give you better insight on how unlock other women more easily as well as give you a more finely tuned sense of when to keep pushing versus ejecting. Some women may have ultra high defenses up and while they aren’t worth the effort it’s a big ego boost to unlock someone who looks at you with disdain.

Game isn’t magic it’s simply reaching a locked in state and learning how to tap into that state on a consistent basis regardless of what’s transpiring around you. That’s the magic part where you are in tune with yourself and your surroundings. Rejections do not matter and they happen less.

Pre-screening is becoming an expert at understanding what women are subcommunicating to know if they are interested and how to sub communicate to a woman that you are interested so that the interaction becomes simply a step to getting laid.

You have a firm grasp from what I’ve read but there’s always room to improve.
 

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I don't tend to be very that active in this journal but for now I decided i'd carry on with it, if only to post the occasional random approach/FR when I feel like it.

Don't see my good looking friend who was featured in this journal much at the moment, so that might dissapoint a few readers who enjoyed hearing about his exploits and what it's like when you live on 'Easy street'!! :)

Went to check out a new bar. As I go to order a beer there's a girl sitting at the bar with like 4 drinks lined up. She's not that hot but i'm trying to get in the social flow! I open ''Are these all your drinks?! You looking to get white-girl wasted tonight?'' She laughs and tells me that 2 are hers, and 2 are her friends who's in the bathroom. I tell her I think she's lying and she laughs, and then I order my beer.
Her friend comes back and her friend is fairly hot. They talk for a few seconds and I re-open the original girl like ''Ahh....you weren't lying to me!'' and then her friend spins around and is like ''oh....hello!!''. Her friend explains how she 'knows' me. I ask where they are going tonight, get their names. I make the hot one laugh a lot with some line about the toilets in the bar i'd just been too being like 'the log flume at Alton Tower''. She was laughing hard!

We carried on chatting a bit. Then she got her phone out and started filming me/us and stuff.
Occasionally I'd talk some some friends who had joined me at the bar and she tapped me on the shoulder a few times to initiate conversation. Was a bit concerned that she hadn't really asked me anything about myself , though. Possible IOD? (indicator of DISinterest)
There were a few moments where we held eye contact as we spoke and I could feel some possible tension.
My friends weren't winging me at all which I think is why I found it so hard to escalate on the girl I liked. Wasn't sure how best to do it and so the interaction never 'really' went 'man-to-woman' enough.

I struggle with how to do this smoothly at the best of times without just blurting out ''I like you by the way. You're pretty'' like an autist, and I guess I found it even harder when he mate was sat next to her! So I just never 'went there'.
We had to leave shortly after and she gave me a hug goodbye, but I didn't ask for the number.
The whole time I was talking to her, there was a very hot, very young girl who sitting on a nearby table who seemed to be downing shot after shot every 10 mins. My friends were talking about how hot she was and claimed that she'd looked over at us a few times.

ANyway, as we left, they left too, so I decided to go for it outside. I think I opened her and asked how her night was going, and she pretty much just put her palm near my face as if to say ''I'm not interested!''. Hmmm.... Shouldn't have came as a surprise I guess. She was extremely hot lol

I think her rejection gave me some approach anxiety, because I failed to open another beautiful girl that was sitting down in the club/bar on the seats in the next bar we went too. Kept telling myself that she didn't look like she wanted to be approached and was just chatting with her friends, and also every 'opener' in my head started to sound 'bad'. You ever get that? Like, when you're feeling anxious, you think ''I could say, 'hi, I'm James', but then she'll look at me like ''Errrr...why are you telling me this. Go away''. Or I think 'I could go direct and be like ''Hey. You're kinda cute. Thought i'd say Hi', but then she'll be like ''Yeah. I know. Thanks. Bye'' lol. Literally every opener just sounds bad. Like, no opener that anybody coild give me in that moment would sound good to my ear.

Anyway, I did manage to find my balls and opened 2 women sitting chatting in a pub. Annoying I can't remember what I opened with, but I remember getting a kind of shocked reaction, yet a positive one. It was possibly something like ''Hi! I thought i'd join you for 2 seconds whilst my mate gets served'' and she was like ''Oh!!!! ha. Ok. what's your name?''.

We started chatting and it went very good. I was teasing them, lots of ****y-funny stuff etc, although I wasn't THAT attracted to either of them. They were OK, but i'm into girls that are way too young for me, and they were actually a few years older than me.
The better looking one called me 'very confident' a few times which is funny because i'm not at all, although I guess with 'game' I can appear so. Can't think how it ended, but I didn't want them either way. I think me and my friends just bailed.
Feeling a bit better now I got chatting to some random Polish guy who was sitting with 4 hot girls, all from different countries. I then opened the pretty young French girl on a bench and she was super rude and basically told me to leave her alone after I said 'Hi'!'. (Ned Flanders : ''A rude French person?!! Well, I never!!!) I figured since i'd made friends with the dude and he seemed to like me, i'd have built a little value, but this hottie was having none of it!

Then went to get a cab home and bumped into the 2 older girls from the pub. 3 Black guys were trying hard to get them to come back to their house. The prettier one was into it, but the uglier one was shouting at her not to do it. Both girls then got in a cab on their own, but one of the black guys just jumped in their cab and then the other dudes started walking towards it lol. Not sure how that played out!
 

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You ever get that?
Yeah. I know exactly what you mean. Except usually I think 'Damn, I'm so in my head right now. I have to say something or this is gonna fvck up my mood for the rest of the day.' the thing I resort to when I can't think of anything is 'Hi what's your name?... My name is... Where are you from?" I just keep small talking until I find something I can joke about or dive deeper on.

Although this approach doesn't seem to work well on foreign (Hispanic and Middle Eastern) girls in the US haha. They give a defensive vibe as if they're being questioned by the IRS or something. It's happened to me twice. I understand why that might come off a little weird so in the future I'll meet the questioning to a minimum and just be more conversational.

Anyways, yeah when I'm in my head I make sure I do the approach anyways so that I don't stay in my head.
 

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'Hi what's your name?... My name is... Where are you from?" I just keep small talking until I find something I can joke about or dive deeper on.

Although this approach doesn't seem to work well on foreign (Hispanic and Middle Eastern) girls in the US haha. They give a defensive vibe as if they're being questioned by the IRS or something. It's happened to me twice. I understand why that might come off a little weird so in the future I'll meet the questioning to a minimum and just be more conversational.
Yeah, one of the most frustrating things for me when I first got into this was when i'd use RSD Julien's advised opener of just being like ''Hi, i'm xxx'' or whatever, it ALWAYS got a weird reaction. Basically 100%. I always found it strange how the American girls would react in infields. ''Hi, I'm Julien'' was often met with ''Hi! I'm Kelly! How are you??!''. But Americans are just so damn social with strangers compared to Brits. ''Hi, i'm Julien'' in the UK is met with 'Errr...OK?'' and then a backturn or sometimes worse lol. I gave up with that sort of opener after all my friends confirmed what I already know. That basically just introducing yourself or going straight into questions is unusual here. Introducing yourself makes her either think you're an oddball who hasn't been socialised, or that she thinks she has a meeting with you that she's forgot about or that, as you say, she's being questioned by the IRS lol (Well, the HMRC in my case!)
 

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Yeah, one of the most frustrating things for me when I first got into this was when i'd use RSD Julien's advised opener of just being like ''Hi, i'm xxx'' or whatever, it ALWAYS got a weird reaction. Basically 100%. I always found it strange how the American girls would react in infields. ''Hi, I'm Julien'' was often met with ''Hi! I'm Kelly! How are you??!''. But Americans are just so damn social with strangers compared to Brits. ''Hi, i'm Julien'' in the UK is met with 'Errr...OK?'' and then a backturn or sometimes worse lol. I gave up with that sort of opener after all my friends confirmed what I already know. That basically just introducing yourself or going straight into questions is unusual here. Introducing yourself makes her either think you're an oddball who hasn't been socialised, or that she thinks she has a meeting with you that she's forgot about or that, as you say, she's being questioned by the IRS lol (Well, the HMRC in my case!)
Go direct then with the brits, latinas ?

Americans are social but its very professional, nothing personal. lol.
 

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@mrgoodstuff Did you have any experience with going direct ? Personally, when I go direct, I get mostly no's but at the same time it feels good for the rejection over regret vibe.
 

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@mrgoodstuff Did you have any experience with going direct ? Personally, when I go direct, I get mostly no's but at the same time it feels good for the rejection over regret vibe.
Im mostly in relationship. But ive penetrated 50 over the years. So whats worked is observing interest such as a double take and just saying "hello". Ill notice sometjing about her and comment. I get the number quickly. Im definately out of it for the 2019 way of doing things. But you cant lose using your time on babes who display obvious interest and are coming to you.
 

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I’m young but I believe i can contribute a little bit here .
Most of the times i have fcked a female , it never seemed to end into fck .

What i mean is , i speak with some girl about vague things, not sexual tension no anything and just in a moment we make out and end up in her/my house . It’s all about your moves . I just do the move with no hesitation. I know my value , i know that she’s gonna like it and that she is going to need more after I finish. It’s like I’m offering her a present. Op , you are too hesitant. Have some more self confidence.

Some years ago i used to care more what they believed of me and my main focus was to fck some female . I stopped caring about it and magic started happen .

Op you are a social person but you’re digging a hole at yourself if you don’t make a good social circle . I mean you have talked to 200 different females in like 1 year and your main focus was to fck every single one of them . It can’t happen and nobody has ever done no matter how attractive you are .

I have stopped cold approaches mainly because of lack of time , also when i go out i want to enjoy the music and my time with my friends and because it’s awkward, not for yourself but for anyone. It’s even worse if you are in small city cause then you’ll be seen as a creep.

My advice is , befriend most of the females you approach, and allow them to introduce you to their hot friends .If they don’t have then it’s alright , the other females will be more open to your approach. Patience is the key .

In one of your field reports , you said you kissed 3 different women in front of each and you banged the one who saw you kissing 2 different women .
Women love to compete with each other . At everything. Who has better hair , nails , shoes cars boyfriend, lover . Anything. If you walk around with women , you smv is gonna skyrocket.
You or somebody else here i think said there was some guy who banged 200 women , and they considered him to be hot because he had been with so many women .
Perception is different than reality. You can manipulate both if you know the tricks .
I believe in your age and experience you do .

Good luck out there !!!
 

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Op , you are too hesitant. Have some more self confidence.
Can you elaborate here a little? Where was I too hesitant and lacking confidence? Are you advising to just be way more direct and sooner in each set or something? I think I have posted some interactions where i've been very forward in this journal for what it's worth. And it can work fine, but only if you are her type lookswise. Otherwise it's a rejection/slap/court case/restraining order lol. I think i've found what's 'best' for my area. Maybe in BVrazil i'd be super direct for example, though


Op you are a social person but you’re digging a hole at yourself if you don’t make a good social circle
Yeah, a big social circle full of girls would be ideal, but I don't think it's really a possibility once you're out of college and stuff unless you are lucky to be working with loads of hot girls who enjoy 'works drinks' all the time like my friend.
cheers
 

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Can you elaborate here a little? Where was I too hesitant and lacking confidence? Are you advising to just be way more direct and sooner in each set or something? I think I have posted some interactions where i've been very forward in this journal for what it's worth. And it can work fine, but only if you are her type lookswise. Otherwise it's a rejection/slap/court case/restraining order lol. I think i've found what's 'best' for my area. Maybe in BVrazil i'd be super direct for example, though



Yeah, a big social circle full of girls would be ideal, but I don't think it's really a possibility once you're out of college and stuff unless you are lucky to be working with loads of hot girls who enjoy 'works drinks' all the time like my friend.
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In some interactions you were too direct and achieved what you wanted as soon as you met the girl and in some others , most of them , you were stretching the conversation for too long .

As for the second part , you said it yourself , it doesn’t matter if you work together or not , just befriend them and hang out with them . Have fun
 
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approach 1:
girl by herself standing near to the table where me and 2 friends were drinking. She was nothing special, but I wanted to get my feet wet/practice
Looked at her, but couldn't think of anything 'clever' to open with based on oservations. nothing 'stood out'.
So, I just went with

''Hi! What's up?? I'm sub'' (and smiled)
(she looked a bit grumpy)
her: ''hi''
me: ''are you here alone?''
her: ''my friends are just coming''
me: ''what's your name?''
her: ''claire''
At this point, 2 of her friends turned up, and she turned her back to me and kind of positioned herself so that her friends were kind of making a barrier between us. Obviously not interested in me, so I just kind of played it off, and smile and said
me: ''Ok, you take it easy, Claire!''
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Approach 2:
I'm in a trendy kind of ****tail bar in the outside area, and 2 gorgeous girls arrive and stand near me and my friends, drinking their drinks.

Me: Hi! (smile) (I couldn't think of a good opener, so just went with the old 'just say hi' advice.)

At this point one of them turned her head away from me, and the other one just blanked me. I immediately felt a bit bad, because the look they gave me was one of ''we are out of your league!''

me: How's it going? (to both girls)
(one of them carried on blanking me, and the other one pretended that her friend didn't speak English.)
Her: She doesn't understand English.

Me: Oh? where is she from?

(at this point the 'one who can't speak English' (which was a lie, lol) kind of grabbed her friend, and they both walked back indoors in the bar)

this was extra bad, because my friends I was with (who also NEVER pull) told me that I was wasting my time trying to chat up girls who are so good looking. 'Aim lower!!'' was the advice

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Approach 3:
In a different bar, and a girl is taking photos of her friends. I tap her on the shoulder

me: ''You're friends always make you the designated photo taker?''
her: ''haha...thinking about it, it is always me taking the photos!''
me: ''that sucks. Do they at least tag you in them on facebook?''
her: ''NO! I have to do it myself like a loner
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me: Lets find you some new friends tonight.
her'' haha''
me: Where are you going tonight?''
her: My boyfriend is taking me out for a meal later, but gonna be here until he gets here''
me: Oh. Boyfriend?! (made a pretend super sad face. She laughed and touched me on the shoulder)
her: Awww...what sort of girl are you hoping to meet tonight? what willl she look like
me: Like you!! but with blonde hair! (this girl was brunette)
her: HAHAHA (She seemed to find this VERY funny for some reason)

At this point, some guy (not her boyfriend) completely cut in between us, and started talking to her. i tihnk he was a friend. It was a bit awkward and rude, but i didn't feel lke doing anything about it,m since I knew i wasn't gonna be able to get her anyway, so I just craned around him and said ''I gotta get back to my friends, see ya later''

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Approach 4: Girls on dance floor in loudish club, so no tlaking.

In a club now and my very good looking friend has joined us. Girls are staring at him. We go on the dancefloor together, and dance. Just me and him. Neither of us can really dance, but we are in time (have rhythm) and are just having fun.

Every few minutes, a girl will come over and flirt with my friend. He is not really interested as he has a stunning GF and doesn't want to cheat on her. He just smiles at the girls.

Now a group of 3 girls come over, and all of them are kind of circling him. One is trying to touch his chest and tell him he's gorgeous and asks if she wants to come home with him lol

They're obviously close to me too, so I try some sort of RSD hand of god type thing on one of them, but she looks at me and shakes her head and says ''we like your friend!!!''
ouch.

Me and my friend go back to the bar. I feel like ****, lol.

Approach 5:

outside area of a nice little bar.

I look at one of them, smile and say
(me)''Hey! I've got a ticket for that ride up there. Fancy it!?'' (I was lieing here. I didn't have one)
(her) ''Nahhhh.''
(me) ''Why not? You're not scared are ya?!!''
(her) ''lol, no. We've got these bands (showed me her wrist) so we can go on any rides , anyway
(me) Ooooooh. You're just showing off now!
(her) haha
(me) So what are you up too tonight? Going anywhere fun?
(her) No. nothing planned.
(at this point, the really hot one who was closest to me turned her back to me, the other one was kind of looking away, and the one I was mainly talking too was giving me the vibe that she didn't want to talk)
It went quiet, and so I started telling them why I was out and stuff,
''Yeah, so me and my friends are out for a mates birthday. We're going to Xbar later on. You been?''
but at this point it got a bit weird, because they all basically ignored me, lol.
i'm not sure if I done something wrong or if I was just unlucky in terms of the girls not being that friendly.

It got a bit weird at this point, because they all kind of turned there back on me and clearly didn't want me talking to them.
I think I tried to break the atmosphere and said something like ''why do yuo hate me!?'' in a PLAYFUL way whilst smiling, but they carried on looking away.
I just gave up trying to talk to them, and left a few minutes after. Awkward.
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Went to town with my best friends from school (including the super handsome dude lol). Don't get to see them much so was in a happy mood.

Opened the 2 hottest girls in the bar. Both 9's. Blonde and a brunette. Blonde one had that conceited ***** girl vibe about her. I think I opened her based on herr crazy red fur jacket she had on. 'Clothes openers' just seem to be by natural go too. And if not, clothes becomes the transtion after the opener lol. I talked to them both and done 'good' in that I was able to basically cram in everything under the umbrella of 'game' into the set. Teased her, disqualified her, cold read etc etc. However, after a few mins I was starting to run out of things to say. It's just almost impossible to keep a convo going when it's so one-sided. I decided to leave on a high and ejected.

Then opened 2 more absolutely beautiful girls. Opened them and told them they look like they should be in an 80's music video. They both just looked like they were from 1984 with their hair and style. Turns out they were Lithuanian. Both solid 8's. Again, tease, cold read bla bla. I said a few words in Lithuanian which made them laugh. Names, ages, plans for the night, told a little DHV story, but once again, it was all one-sided and they weren't asking my things or making any attempt at keeping the convo going, and so after a few mins I ejected.

Then I opened 2 girls in a different bar. Slightly older and average looking but good practice. I went sexual pretty soon, trying to insert some techniques i've been reading about. She asked me if I have a big **** and I told her it's tiny like a wet baby carrot, and then she started grabbing my **** through my jeans! I wasn't really into her though and we decided to head too a different bar.

Opened a cute girl who gave me an IOI. Can't actually remember what I opened with though which is annoying as it was a really solid set, and I like to always know exactly what I said in such sets (including the opener). So I opened, teased her, asked who she was with, got her name, ran some silly little 'routine' and she WAS contributing, unlike the earlier girls. Gave us some flow. I got a bit physical with her and gave her an eskimo kiss, and then her Auntie or something tried to pull her away from me but the girl was like ''Trust me, i'm fine. I like him. He's nice''. This happened a few times! Turns out she's engaged, and she's out with her family. Dad, brother, Aunty etc! Bit awkward, but I made fun of the situation and went into some roleplay stuff about me impressing her parents and making them like me so we can run away together. We took some photos and I made friends with one of her friends. At one point she said something like ''If I was single, i'd blatantly be asking you to come home with me tonight'' which was a nice confidence boost for an ugly dude!

Then I opened some hot girl outside. Was going good, but then my handsome friend came over, and her attention completely flipped from me to him!! haha. This has happened before. She was just all over him due to his looks and I knew there was nothing I could do. She bought him a drink, I think she tried to pull him, but when she could see that he probably wasn't interested, she left

I spot 4 super hot teen girls dancing. I had to double take but I realised that the hottest girl was the one I banged in this journal!! :

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/100-approaches.251860/page-2#post-2569640


Wasn't sure about approaching her as it ended so weird last time, and I could kind of tell that she didn't recognise me when we made eye contact. So I decided to open her as a stranger, and went direct. Basically told her I thought she was cute. She wasn't really giving me anything back and the set was short and kind of awkward and I felt like I was a bit 'needy'. All pull and no push. I ejected, but to my surprise, she walked up to me a few mins later and we chatted. I told her I recognised her, but didn't tell her where from. She honestly seemed to have no idea who I am which is weird but kind of good. Weird thing was that I gave her my phone to put my number in, but it doesn't seem to be on there! And I was too drunk to check at the time.
Anyway, I saw her again outside an hour or so later, and she was being chatted up by some handsome dude, and I called her over to me, and she gave me a horrible expression like ''Who is this loser'' and then just blanked me! haha. Ouch. I think she's just a bit nuts tbh. But then I learnt that the first time round!! Damn hot, though!

Possibly a couple other short sets but nothing to write about.

Interesting night. I think in terms of game I done all I could have done, really. Not angry at myself like I sometimes am.
 

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Only a short one as I 'hooked' my second set.

Set 1. 2 girls are sitting in an area away from everyone else. The girl I like is like a 9/10. She just looks like a to model. Stunning face and nice body. My instincts tell me that this will be a rough set due to how hot she is and her body language and the fact she's sitting in an area where there's no 'traffic'. **** it. I walk over to her and she starts 'fanning' herself with a menu. I grab a menu sitting near her and say ''I got you'' and fan her a little in a playful way. I know from experience that this sort of opener is fine and can go down well, so I don't blame the opener. Anyway, she reacts like most hot girls nowadays. Like she's Kylie Jenner or something and looks at me like trash and tells me to go away in what might have been like Russian accent or something. My mission in life is to 'turn' these kind of girls from a hard 'no' too a yes, even if it's not actually possible. I try to implement some lines that I've read from game books and tease her about her reaction like I find it amusing. I'm like ''Awww....are you always so friendly to strangers? I love your attitude!''. But she still didn't really react and tried to just turn her whole body away from me like I was homeless. I carried on for a few more seconds, but it was completely pointless. She was STUNNING but just a ***** and probably would have reacted that way to everyone who wasn't like a model or a premier league footballer or something lol

In the same bar, i'm about to leave, and I spot a beautiful girl with a really interesting look. Looks like Dita Von teese with her dress sense. I open her. I can't remember whether I went with a silly direct opener like ''Wow. I was gay until I saw you!'' or whether I commented with something like ''You look nice. you remind me of one of those actresses in the 50's''. Either way, she was fairly receptive off of the bat.
She 'hooked' pretty fast and told me that it was unusual for her to NOT just instantly reject some random guy who approached her. As a student of game I found this interesting and it lead too a fun discussion about meeting people and stuff. She was kind of complimenting me on my confidence and my approach and stuff which was nice.

I started to run some very heavy/technical/ kinda old school game here. I noticed her rings and grabbed her hand and was like ''tell me about this one!''. I'm playing with her fingers as she's talking. I start rambling off some nonsense about how each finger responds too a greek God and talk about Dionysus and how he's the God of wine and how she must be a party girl.
Her friend tries to steal her from me, but she tells her that she's fine. Her friend then buys us all shots at the bar whilst I carry on working!
I run another 'routine' and then go into some cold reads. Classic ''good girl, bad girl stuff''. She's eating it up. I accidentally brush her boob with my hand and she's like ''You just touched my boob'' and I was like ''I know. I even tried to make it seem like an accident! It'll be your ass in a minute, but can you not point it out next time?'' and she laughed and hit my arm.

I try to use some time distortion by bouncing her too a different bar and she complies.

I'm trying to cram every single line and technique/theory that I've ever read (and I've read them ALL!!).

I now start the qualification stuff. I'm trying to make her think that I like her for reasons that aren't to do with her looks basically.
She's obviously somewhat attracted, so I isolate her and ramp up the kino. I'm rubbing my hands over her hips and ass
I've got her pushed up against a fence and she's gone 'floppy'. This' floppy' thing is something I've seen so many times and it's when she's attracted. However, it was a busy area, her friend was watching, and I could definitely feel some resistance. I tried to test the waters by getting me mouth super close to hers but she kind of turned her head and pulled away. I knew she wasn't ready yet. I needed more time, HOWEVER, her friend had to go, and she was staying with her and her uber that she booked just turned up out of nowhere and she literally had to go then!!1 sucked.
It was late now and as i'm walking to get a cab I spot a beautiful, very young girl. Like 18. I just extend my hand for her to take and she does lol. I spin her around and then we recognise each other. It's some hot girl who I tried gamin about 6 months ago! We laugh and I just get super physical straight away. Pick her up. Carry her to some dark area and just test for compliance. A bit like with the other girl, she's into it, but she's not ready. I can tell. I don't go for the kiss. Kind of wish I had have though, tbh. Just in case I read it wrong, although i'm usually right tbh. Her friend calls her and she leaves and tells me to add her on fb.

So basically, one harsh rejection, one close call, and one short encounter with familiar face.
 
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