“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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here is the one tip you need, and follow it very closely: be good looking. you MUST work as hard as you can to be hot, and by hot you know what I'm talking about. russell crowe is an example of this.
 

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1. Be rich
2. Be handsome
3. Have high status
4. Have access to drugs
5. Have a high-end car

Phase 1: Acquire these things.

Phase 2: ???

Phase 3: Profit!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Megaman XIV said:
1. Be rich
2. Be handsome
3. Have high status
4. Have access to drugs
5. Have a high-end car
:crackup: Dude, that s.hit's embarrassing. I hope nobody sees that on Google.
 

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SexyMofo said:
Aye, looks make the game much easier.
watch out there are a bunch of fvcking whiners around here who dont wanna here that. i wish i was as hot as ben stiller.
 

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Still_Skippin said:
watch out there are a bunch of fvcking whiners around here who dont wanna here that. i wish i was as hot as ben stiller.
I hear ya bro. Those fools think they can run up on a fine girl and say some magic PUA lines to get her panties down.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
They get your foot in the door more often, so yeah, it makes it easier.
No they don't. Opening your mouth gets your foot in the door...what comes out of it decides whether or not the door is slammed in your face or not. Sometimes you don't even need to open your mouth. Women can smell confidence and masculinity just as easily as they can smell fear and timidity.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just a Shot Away said:
No they don't. Opening your mouth gets your foot in the door...what comes out of it decides whether or not the door is slammed in your face or not. Sometimes you don't even need to open your mouth. Women can smell confidence and masculinity just as easily as they can smell fear and timidity.
You can't debate this--if a girl sees you from far away and you're hot enough to make her puss wet, based soley on looks, then yes that's making the game easier and it'll soften her up.

THEN you can open your mouth and your game is judged on that...only after not before. This is a pretty widely accepted fact. JASA why are you trying to argue a trivial thing like that?
 

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Everyone is forgetting penis size. If she sees that you have a small penis then she will not be turned on unless you can redeem yourself by sexual talk.
 

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Black Dog said:
You can't debate this--if a girl sees you from far away and you're hot enough to make her puss wet, based soley on looks, then yes that's making the game easier and it'll soften her up.

THEN you can open your mouth and your game is judged on that...only after not before. This is a pretty widely accepted fact. JASA why are you trying to argue a trivial thing like that?
You can't debate this, but not for the reasons you're thinking. See, it's been scientifically proven that women instinctively seek out certain traits in a mate that maximizes her chances of creating healthy offspring that survive. Since a female cannot read anything about a male's ability to hunt and gather for himself and protect the nest from a man's facial symmetry, it doesn't really enter into the attraction equation. Darwin's discoveries about evolution on the Galapagos Islands in the 19th century helped fuel an avalanche of scientific discoveries about sexual selection over the past 150 years. These discoveries have been documented in numerous scientific journals and articles, as well as provided the bases for countless other advances in biology.

So no, I'm not arguing anything trivial. I'm explaining the facts to you. By definition, I cannot argue for or against facts. I am, however, obligated to make others aware of them when someone makes totally false statements like I've been hearing in this thread since only harm can come from believing that you are limited to dating only certain women based on the amount of symmetry in one's face.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
No they don't. Opening your mouth gets your foot in the door...what comes out of it decides whether or not the door is slammed in your face or not. Sometimes you don't even need to open your mouth. Women can smell confidence and masculinity just as easily as they can smell fear and timidity.
The same guy, with an extra 50lbs and without the extra 50lbs, guess when he's going to do better with women?

Despite what you may think, the FIRST thing that a person judges you on before you even open your mouth is what you look like. It's instinctual. If you're fat and you dress like a bum, then you will be assumed to be a bum. You're gonna have to do a hell of a lot of talking to overcome that before you get anywhere else.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24670&page=85

What is this link that I posted?

It is dozens of pages of highlights of Just a Shot Away arguing about this same SHYT OVER THREE GODDAMN YEARS AGO under his old banned user name "Deus Ex Pianoforte"

This guy simply does not want to accept reality and finally improve himself..........he's had the same delusional ideas for years, and in true sosuave fashion, argues about something without having any success to back it up.
 

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Still_Skippin said:
watch out there are a bunch of fvcking whiners around here who dont wanna here that. i wish i was as hot as ben stiller.
Hm... lets see who's a bigger whiner:

Guy A: "Hm... I'm not exactly great looking, but I still wanna bang hot chicks. I guess I better brush up on my game"

Guy B: "I'm not good looking, I can't get hot chicks. Life is so unfair"
 

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SeymourCake said:
Everyone is forgetting penis size. If she sees that you have a small penis then she will not be turned on unless you can redeem yourself by sexual talk.
How is she gonna know about your penis size BEFORE you get her in bed? You gonna whip it out?
 

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Alle_Gory said:
The same guy, with an extra 50lbs and without the extra 50lbs, guess when he's going to do better with women?
The EXACT same guy? Well, yes. Then the guy without the extra 50 lbs (of fat I'm assuming) will do better, since they have equal levels of confidence, personality, and game. But then again...if one of the clone's shoelaces were untied, the guy with tied shoelaces will win. So we haven't really gained anything from that analogy.

Despite what you may think, the FIRST thing that a person judges you on before you even open your mouth is what you look like. It's instinctual. If you're fat and you dress like a bum, then you will be assumed to be a bum. You're gonna have to do a hell of a lot of talking to overcome that before you get anywhere else.
Agreed. However, people like you, skip2mylou and Falcon25 fall into the pitfall of believing that women base sexual attraction on your looks. An understandable error, but an error nonetheless.


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It is dozens of pages of highlights of Just a Shot Away arguing about this same SHYT OVER THREE GODDAMN YEARS AGO under his old banned user name "Deus Ex Pianoforte"
*sigh* Skip, skip, skip, skip, skip...you're still not getting it. There is no arguing this subject. "Deus ex Pianoforte" was not arguing except in a very select few posts. Arguing that women don't base sexual attraction off of facial symmetry is like arguing that human beings need oxygen to survive. The term just doesn't apply in this case.

This guy simply does not want to accept reality and finally improve himself..........he's had the same delusional ideas for years, and in true sosuave fashion, argues about something without having any success to back it up.
I've had plenty of success. You live in a vacuum. You believe that if someone is unable to pull girls, then this must mean that they have NEVER done so. There is a technical name for this sort of logical error, which escapes me right now. But that's irrelevant to the mistake you are making. If you want to know if someone is able to pull tail, you'll need a lot more than a headshot, my friend.
 

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Just a Shot Away said:
So no, I'm not arguing anything trivial. I'm explaining the facts to you. By definition, I cannot argue for or against facts. I am, however, obligated to make others aware of them when someone makes totally false statements like I've been hearing in this thread since only harm can come from believing that you are limited to dating only certain women based on the amount of symmetry in one's face.
But what you are saying is also harmful to others, by implying looks don't matter and all you need is game. From your statements men don't need to workout, dress better, try to physically improve themselves. No, all they need to do is learn 'Game'. Shame on your limiting beliefs and trying to make others follow your thoughts.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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