Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
No, they don't.SexyMofo said:Aye, looks make the game much easier.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
:crackup: Dude, that s.hit's embarrassing. I hope nobody sees that on Google.Megaman XIV said:1. Be rich
2. Be handsome
3. Have high status
4. Have access to drugs
5. Have a high-end car
watch out there are a bunch of fvcking whiners around here who dont wanna here that. i wish i was as hot as ben stiller.SexyMofo said:Aye, looks make the game much easier.
I hear ya bro. Those fools think they can run up on a fine girl and say some magic PUA lines to get her panties down.Still_Skippin said:watch out there are a bunch of fvcking whiners around here who dont wanna here that. i wish i was as hot as ben stiller.
They get your foot in the door more often, so yeah, it makes it easier.Just a Shot Away said:No, they don't.
No they don't. Opening your mouth gets your foot in the door...what comes out of it decides whether or not the door is slammed in your face or not. Sometimes you don't even need to open your mouth. Women can smell confidence and masculinity just as easily as they can smell fear and timidity.Alle_Gory said:They get your foot in the door more often, so yeah, it makes it easier.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can't debate this--if a girl sees you from far away and you're hot enough to make her puss wet, based soley on looks, then yes that's making the game easier and it'll soften her up.Just a Shot Away said:No they don't. Opening your mouth gets your foot in the door...what comes out of it decides whether or not the door is slammed in your face or not. Sometimes you don't even need to open your mouth. Women can smell confidence and masculinity just as easily as they can smell fear and timidity.
You can't debate this, but not for the reasons you're thinking. See, it's been scientifically proven that women instinctively seek out certain traits in a mate that maximizes her chances of creating healthy offspring that survive. Since a female cannot read anything about a male's ability to hunt and gather for himself and protect the nest from a man's facial symmetry, it doesn't really enter into the attraction equation. Darwin's discoveries about evolution on the Galapagos Islands in the 19th century helped fuel an avalanche of scientific discoveries about sexual selection over the past 150 years. These discoveries have been documented in numerous scientific journals and articles, as well as provided the bases for countless other advances in biology.Black Dog said:You can't debate this--if a girl sees you from far away and you're hot enough to make her puss wet, based soley on looks, then yes that's making the game easier and it'll soften her up.
THEN you can open your mouth and your game is judged on that...only after not before. This is a pretty widely accepted fact. JASA why are you trying to argue a trivial thing like that?
The same guy, with an extra 50lbs and without the extra 50lbs, guess when he's going to do better with women?Just a Shot Away said:No they don't. Opening your mouth gets your foot in the door...what comes out of it decides whether or not the door is slammed in your face or not. Sometimes you don't even need to open your mouth. Women can smell confidence and masculinity just as easily as they can smell fear and timidity.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hm... lets see who's a bigger whiner:Still_Skippin said:watch out there are a bunch of fvcking whiners around here who dont wanna here that. i wish i was as hot as ben stiller.
How is she gonna know about your penis size BEFORE you get her in bed? You gonna whip it out?SeymourCake said:Everyone is forgetting penis size. If she sees that you have a small penis then she will not be turned on unless you can redeem yourself by sexual talk.
The EXACT same guy? Well, yes. Then the guy without the extra 50 lbs (of fat I'm assuming) will do better, since they have equal levels of confidence, personality, and game. But then again...if one of the clone's shoelaces were untied, the guy with tied shoelaces will win. So we haven't really gained anything from that analogy.Alle_Gory said:The same guy, with an extra 50lbs and without the extra 50lbs, guess when he's going to do better with women?
Agreed. However, people like you, skip2mylou and Falcon25 fall into the pitfall of believing that women base sexual attraction on your looks. An understandable error, but an error nonetheless.Despite what you may think, the FIRST thing that a person judges you on before you even open your mouth is what you look like. It's instinctual. If you're fat and you dress like a bum, then you will be assumed to be a bum. You're gonna have to do a hell of a lot of talking to overcome that before you get anywhere else.
*sigh* Skip, skip, skip, skip, skip...you're still not getting it. There is no arguing this subject. "Deus ex Pianoforte" was not arguing except in a very select few posts. Arguing that women don't base sexual attraction off of facial symmetry is like arguing that human beings need oxygen to survive. The term just doesn't apply in this case.Rescue Mission said:It is dozens of pages of highlights of Just a Shot Away arguing about this same SHYT OVER THREE GODDAMN YEARS AGO under his old banned user name "Deus Ex Pianoforte"
I've had plenty of success. You live in a vacuum. You believe that if someone is unable to pull girls, then this must mean that they have NEVER done so. There is a technical name for this sort of logical error, which escapes me right now. But that's irrelevant to the mistake you are making. If you want to know if someone is able to pull tail, you'll need a lot more than a headshot, my friend.This guy simply does not want to accept reality and finally improve himself..........he's had the same delusional ideas for years, and in true sosuave fashion, argues about something without having any success to back it up.
But what you are saying is also harmful to others, by implying looks don't matter and all you need is game. From your statements men don't need to workout, dress better, try to physically improve themselves. No, all they need to do is learn 'Game'. Shame on your limiting beliefs and trying to make others follow your thoughts.Just a Shot Away said:So no, I'm not arguing anything trivial. I'm explaining the facts to you. By definition, I cannot argue for or against facts. I am, however, obligated to make others aware of them when someone makes totally false statements like I've been hearing in this thread since only harm can come from believing that you are limited to dating only certain women based on the amount of symmetry in one's face.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.