Pretty interesting, gives you something to think about.
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/07/10-reasons-you-should-never-get-a-job/
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/07/10-reasons-you-should-never-get-a-job/
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
10 reasons to never get a job
- Thread starter speakeasy
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I tend to disagree with such mind set, and for the most part, his arguments are downright retarded.
"Working a steady job makes you a sheep"
"You have to pay taxes"
"You can lose your job"
"Your boss is evil"
Please. Was this written by a 4th grader?
"Working a steady job makes you a sheep"
"You have to pay taxes"
"You can lose your job"
"Your boss is evil"
Please. Was this written by a 4th grader?
That huge, exhaustive article that guy wrote (and I don't begin to have the time to read), and he thinks he's not working??? 
And that's just one article, let alone that entire site that he must maintain (that I presume he profits from).
I assure you, he "works" more than I do.
And that's just one article, let alone that entire site that he must maintain (that I presume he profits from).I assure you, he "works" more than I do.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Can you please explain what you mean by passive income?speakeasy said:
Not that I'm personally advocating multi-level marketing, but if you have people underneath you making commission for you, that's an example of passive income. Or if you own a site such as sosuave that gets 10s of thousands of visits and advertising are paying you to place ads. That's passive income. Of if have some great pictures you took, selling them to a stock photograpy company and getting commission everytime someone's buys it.OTB said:
ready123
Master Don Juan
Steve Pavlina is a writer slash productivity guru. I know because a few months back I bought one of his books, Personal Development for Smart People, which I thought was interesting but a little too abstract to be practical. The web traffic he brags about comes from the fact he was the FIRST self-help guy to actually blog on the web and has a lot of good ideas he puts out there to retain readership. And if you read his life story, the speed of his life transitions are definately not average.
Bottomline is he's not your typical guy and I don't think he's ever done anything typical. Being the guy who thinks outside the box is probably something he identifies with, which is why he's rocking it like a badge and is talking down to everyone else
I'll also point out the obvious - the guy DOES have a job: he's a writer. Understandably, there are a ton of people in 9 to 5's who HATE their job, but there are a lot of people out there who hate writing too.
His 10 reasons are subjective. IE He talks about a 9 to 5 being too risky because you have no leverage over your boss or industry. But he writes a blog and he's a slave to his readership and competitors. If his web traffic ever dies, so does his income. If Anthony Robbins ever decided to put his ideas on his blog for free instead of using it as a marketing tool, Pavlina would be done. Same supply/demand economics
If you wanna get to the essence of what he's trying to say about working for yourself, just read Rich Dad Poor Dad - same sht but more accurate, without all the negative talk. And no delusions about the hard work it takes to become an entrepreneur. Kiyosaki was in debt living out of his car for weeks before he opened his first business, making wallets, which eventually tanked (and more power to him for admitting it)
Don't take advice about how working corporate is a deadend from someone like Pavlina who's worked for himself for most of his life. That's like taking advice about picking up girls from a dude who doesn't even talk to girls
Bottomline is he's not your typical guy and I don't think he's ever done anything typical. Being the guy who thinks outside the box is probably something he identifies with, which is why he's rocking it like a badge and is talking down to everyone else
I'll also point out the obvious - the guy DOES have a job: he's a writer. Understandably, there are a ton of people in 9 to 5's who HATE their job, but there are a lot of people out there who hate writing too.
His 10 reasons are subjective. IE He talks about a 9 to 5 being too risky because you have no leverage over your boss or industry. But he writes a blog and he's a slave to his readership and competitors. If his web traffic ever dies, so does his income. If Anthony Robbins ever decided to put his ideas on his blog for free instead of using it as a marketing tool, Pavlina would be done. Same supply/demand economics
If you wanna get to the essence of what he's trying to say about working for yourself, just read Rich Dad Poor Dad - same sht but more accurate, without all the negative talk. And no delusions about the hard work it takes to become an entrepreneur. Kiyosaki was in debt living out of his car for weeks before he opened his first business, making wallets, which eventually tanked (and more power to him for admitting it)
Don't take advice about how working corporate is a deadend from someone like Pavlina who's worked for himself for most of his life. That's like taking advice about picking up girls from a dude who doesn't even talk to girls
ready123
Master Don Juan
That's funny, I just noticed a ton of small business articles and was wondering... wtf is he writing all this sht about starting a small business when a couple months ago he was writing about making an elevator pitch
Then I noticed the SBI link on the side, which looks a MLM to me
great way to pimp your readership - talk sht to them so they feel bad and sign up and you get paid. lol, and he's the guy who talked about integrity being a core value in personal development
Then I noticed the SBI link on the side, which looks a MLM to me
great way to pimp your readership - talk sht to them so they feel bad and sign up and you get paid. lol, and he's the guy who talked about integrity being a core value in personal development
ready123
Master Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I don't believe he claimed that he does not "work", he is saying that a *job* is not the secure vehicle it is made out to be.azanon said:That huge, exhaustive article that guy wrote (and I don't begin to have the time to read), and he thinks he's not working???
I assure you, he "works" more than I do.
His principles are sound. I didn't read the article in depth, but the gist of it is absolutely sound.
Passive income streams allow you to LIVE life.
I'm working on one as we speak. It's a lot of work to set up, but eventually I will be able to make a choice-
1) Continue working hard to build it even bigger
2) Send my product to a fulfillment center and collect checks
or
3) Somewhere in between
Option #3 will give me the best of both worlds. I won't have to work like a dog....I can set my own schedule and travel anywhere in the world, tax deductible. It will keep me busy without stressing me out. Life is good....
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
:cheer:
Send me $49.95 (plus shipping & handling) and I'll tell you how!!!!:cheer:
Alle_Gory said:
Send me $49.95 (plus shipping & handling) and I'll tell you how!!!!:cheer:
Pavlina is a dickhead. Working for salary (hourly, even) gives you much more stability and flexibilty in making money in a part-time side business (at least at first) than submitting immediately to full-time self employment, and relying on business loans or the whims of the market for your next check.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What you're forgetting is that the average corporate job pays 45-55k starting salary. Why? Not because it's proportionate to the value you're providing, but because it's about the same as what EVERY OTHER SIMILAR POSITION PAYS. It's enough to provide a healthy middle class income (assuming you can grow with the position and not get laid off and have to start all over) and nothing more. Most businesses pay people based on their "salary history," meaning they would have willingly started you out at 70k a year, but because your last position only payed you 45k, they now have an excuse to pay you less.
If you work your ass off and improve the company's business in a way that makes them tons of money, they might reward you with a 10k/year raise, which comes out to about $500 more a month (big fucking deal).
Running your own business means you're not subject to the confines of the salary cage. Your pay is directly proportionate to the amount of value you can deliver. If you can move 10 units a month at $5k a pop, then guess what? You will make $50k a month, and it probably won't take 160 hours of your time, either.
The reason for all the negative reactions to this post aren't because it's wrong, but because it's one of those inconvenient truths that people don't want to accept. Nobody wants to be told there's a better way of doing something, especially if they're been doing it inefficiently for so long.
Remember, you aren't "making" money if it requires you to give up something infinitely more valuable (your time).
If you work your ass off and improve the company's business in a way that makes them tons of money, they might reward you with a 10k/year raise, which comes out to about $500 more a month (big fucking deal).
Running your own business means you're not subject to the confines of the salary cage. Your pay is directly proportionate to the amount of value you can deliver. If you can move 10 units a month at $5k a pop, then guess what? You will make $50k a month, and it probably won't take 160 hours of your time, either.
The reason for all the negative reactions to this post aren't because it's wrong, but because it's one of those inconvenient truths that people don't want to accept. Nobody wants to be told there's a better way of doing something, especially if they're been doing it inefficiently for so long.
Remember, you aren't "making" money if it requires you to give up something infinitely more valuable (your time).
LyteOrchestra
Don Juan
dbot once again shows that he is one of the smartest individuals on this site
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Exactly. LOL.Alle_Gory said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.