Pretty interesting, gives you something to think about.
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/07/10-reasons-you-should-never-get-a-job/
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/07/10-reasons-you-should-never-get-a-job/
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Can you please explain what you mean by passive income?speakeasy said:It's not as farfetched as it may seem. There are lots of people that make enough passive income to thrive on.
Not that I'm personally advocating multi-level marketing, but if you have people underneath you making commission for you, that's an example of passive income. Or if you own a site such as sosuave that gets 10s of thousands of visits and advertising are paying you to place ads. That's passive income. Of if have some great pictures you took, selling them to a stock photograpy company and getting commission everytime someone's buys it.OTB said:Can you please explain what you mean by passive income?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't believe he claimed that he does not "work", he is saying that a *job* is not the secure vehicle it is made out to be.azanon said:That huge, exhaustive article that guy wrote (and I don't begin to have the time to read), and he thinks he's not working???And that's just one article, let alone that entire site that he must maintain (that I presume he profits from).
I assure you, he "works" more than I do.
I think you will be competing against a lot of other people. :yes:Alle_Gory said:I'm going to make passive income, by writing about making passive income through writing a book about making passive income!
Genius.
Alle_Gory said:I'm going to make passive income, by writing about making passive income through writing a book about making passive income!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Post of the month.dbot said:What you're forgetting is that the average corporate job pays 45-55k starting salary. Why? Not because it's proportionate to the value you're providing, but because it's about the same as what EVERY OTHER SIMILAR POSITION PAYS. It's enough to provide a healthy middle class income (assuming you can grow with the position and not get laid off and have to start all over) and nothing more. Most businesses pay people based on their "salary history," meaning they would have willingly started you out at 70k a year, but because your last position only payed you 45k, they now have an excuse to pay you less.
If you work your ass off and improve the company's business in a way that makes them tons of money, they might reward you with a 10k/year raise, which comes out to about $500 more a month (big fucking deal).
Running your own business means you're not subject to the confines of the salary cage. Your pay is directly proportionate to the amount of value you can deliver. If you can move 10 units a month at $5k a pop, then guess what? You will make $50k a month, and it probably won't take 160 hours of your time, either.
The reason for all the negative reactions to this post aren't because it's wrong, but because it's one of those inconvenient truths that people don't want to accept. Nobody wants to be told there's a better way of doing something, especially if they're been doing it inefficiently for so long.
Remember, you aren't "making" money if it requires you to give up something infinitely more valuable (your time).
Exactly. LOL.Alle_Gory said:I'm going to make passive income, by writing about making passive income through writing a book about making passive income!
Genius.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.