Pretty interesting, gives you something to think about.
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/07/10-reasons-you-should-never-get-a-job/
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/07/10-reasons-you-should-never-get-a-job/
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Can you please explain what you mean by passive income?speakeasy said:It's not as farfetched as it may seem. There are lots of people that make enough passive income to thrive on.
Not that I'm personally advocating multi-level marketing, but if you have people underneath you making commission for you, that's an example of passive income. Or if you own a site such as sosuave that gets 10s of thousands of visits and advertising are paying you to place ads. That's passive income. Of if have some great pictures you took, selling them to a stock photograpy company and getting commission everytime someone's buys it.OTB said:Can you please explain what you mean by passive income?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I don't believe he claimed that he does not "work", he is saying that a *job* is not the secure vehicle it is made out to be.azanon said:That huge, exhaustive article that guy wrote (and I don't begin to have the time to read), and he thinks he's not working???And that's just one article, let alone that entire site that he must maintain (that I presume he profits from).
I assure you, he "works" more than I do.
I think you will be competing against a lot of other people. :yes:Alle_Gory said:I'm going to make passive income, by writing about making passive income through writing a book about making passive income!
Genius.
Alle_Gory said:I'm going to make passive income, by writing about making passive income through writing a book about making passive income!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Post of the month.dbot said:What you're forgetting is that the average corporate job pays 45-55k starting salary. Why? Not because it's proportionate to the value you're providing, but because it's about the same as what EVERY OTHER SIMILAR POSITION PAYS. It's enough to provide a healthy middle class income (assuming you can grow with the position and not get laid off and have to start all over) and nothing more. Most businesses pay people based on their "salary history," meaning they would have willingly started you out at 70k a year, but because your last position only payed you 45k, they now have an excuse to pay you less.
If you work your ass off and improve the company's business in a way that makes them tons of money, they might reward you with a 10k/year raise, which comes out to about $500 more a month (big fucking deal).
Running your own business means you're not subject to the confines of the salary cage. Your pay is directly proportionate to the amount of value you can deliver. If you can move 10 units a month at $5k a pop, then guess what? You will make $50k a month, and it probably won't take 160 hours of your time, either.
The reason for all the negative reactions to this post aren't because it's wrong, but because it's one of those inconvenient truths that people don't want to accept. Nobody wants to be told there's a better way of doing something, especially if they're been doing it inefficiently for so long.
Remember, you aren't "making" money if it requires you to give up something infinitely more valuable (your time).
Exactly. LOL.Alle_Gory said:I'm going to make passive income, by writing about making passive income through writing a book about making passive income!
Genius.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.