"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1 song to pump you up. What would it be?

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If you had only 1 song to help motivate you, what will it be? It can be for anything, competitions, sarging basically anything under the sun you might find yourself needing that extra boost.

Heres mine: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VDvr08sCPOc

Hopefully this thread can help some people find some motivation in music to carry on with whatever they want to achieve!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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joverby said:
I'm a musician so a lot music pumps me up. But for an adreniline type pump-up I would have to go with.

Slipknot-Psycosocial (Awesome riffs and catchy lyrics)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wws7mnMewPw&ob=av2n
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About time someone named a true pump me up song in this thread. Slipknot rocks.

Wtf is up with all this rap crap? I like some rap...but man, it's so incredibly fake to me. All these black guys acting all "gangsta". Please. I did like that first song though.
 
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Thread asks for a song that pumps ME up. I didn't post it for anyone else. No one said you need to like or agree with our choices.

Everyone is so quick to judge rap, as if it effects them at all. If you don't like it, don't listen to it.

And on that note, I'm adding another: Wale - Bait
 
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cordoncordon.... Chris Brown - Beautiful People was great live. Great light show to that song to end the concert.

And yes, I'm admitting to going to a Chris Brown concert.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PDubb75 said:
Thread asks for a song that pumps ME up. I didn't post it for anyone else. No one said you need to like or agree with our choices.

Everyone is so quick to judge rap, as if it effects them at all. If you don't like it, don't listen to it.

And on that note, I'm adding another: Wale - Bait
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Heh, no need to take it so personally.

I don't like nor listen to rap. However, I was not commenting on the quality of music, but on those loser try-hards.
And I'm baffled how some people can look up to such trashy people!

Again, I'm not commenting on their music, which I don't care about.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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