"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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1 song to pump you up. What would it be?

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If you had only 1 song to help motivate you, what will it be? It can be for anything, competitions, sarging basically anything under the sun you might find yourself needing that extra boost.

Heres mine: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VDvr08sCPOc

Hopefully this thread can help some people find some motivation in music to carry on with whatever they want to achieve!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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joverby said:
I'm a musician so a lot music pumps me up. But for an adreniline type pump-up I would have to go with.

Slipknot-Psycosocial (Awesome riffs and catchy lyrics)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wws7mnMewPw&ob=av2n
About time someone named a true pump me up song in this thread. Slipknot rocks.

Wtf is up with all this rap crap? I like some rap...but man, it's so incredibly fake to me. All these black guys acting all "gangsta". Please. I did like that first song though.
 

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Thread asks for a song that pumps ME up. I didn't post it for anyone else. No one said you need to like or agree with our choices.

Everyone is so quick to judge rap, as if it effects them at all. If you don't like it, don't listen to it.

And on that note, I'm adding another: Wale - Bait
 

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cordoncordon.... Chris Brown - Beautiful People was great live. Great light show to that song to end the concert.

And yes, I'm admitting to going to a Chris Brown concert.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PDubb75 said:
Thread asks for a song that pumps ME up. I didn't post it for anyone else. No one said you need to like or agree with our choices.

Everyone is so quick to judge rap, as if it effects them at all. If you don't like it, don't listen to it.

And on that note, I'm adding another: Wale - Bait
Heh, no need to take it so personally.

I don't like nor listen to rap. However, I was not commenting on the quality of music, but on those loser try-hards.
And I'm baffled how some people can look up to such trashy people!

Again, I'm not commenting on their music, which I don't care about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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