"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1 song to pump you up. What would it be?

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If you had only 1 song to help motivate you, what will it be? It can be for anything, competitions, sarging basically anything under the sun you might find yourself needing that extra boost.

Heres mine: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VDvr08sCPOc

Hopefully this thread can help some people find some motivation in music to carry on with whatever they want to achieve!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joverby said:
I'm a musician so a lot music pumps me up. But for an adreniline type pump-up I would have to go with.

Slipknot-Psycosocial (Awesome riffs and catchy lyrics)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wws7mnMewPw&ob=av2n
About time someone named a true pump me up song in this thread. Slipknot rocks.

Wtf is up with all this rap crap? I like some rap...but man, it's so incredibly fake to me. All these black guys acting all "gangsta". Please. I did like that first song though.
 

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Thread asks for a song that pumps ME up. I didn't post it for anyone else. No one said you need to like or agree with our choices.

Everyone is so quick to judge rap, as if it effects them at all. If you don't like it, don't listen to it.

And on that note, I'm adding another: Wale - Bait
 

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cordoncordon.... Chris Brown - Beautiful People was great live. Great light show to that song to end the concert.

And yes, I'm admitting to going to a Chris Brown concert.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PDubb75 said:
Thread asks for a song that pumps ME up. I didn't post it for anyone else. No one said you need to like or agree with our choices.

Everyone is so quick to judge rap, as if it effects them at all. If you don't like it, don't listen to it.

And on that note, I'm adding another: Wale - Bait
Heh, no need to take it so personally.

I don't like nor listen to rap. However, I was not commenting on the quality of music, but on those loser try-hards.
And I'm baffled how some people can look up to such trashy people!

Again, I'm not commenting on their music, which I don't care about.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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