"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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0-7 on getting a date

redspicyflag

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And I don't care! Failure leads to success, and I decided to crash and burn. Some of the girls had legitimate reasons, but others didn't. But like Michael Jordan said:

I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
Why fear failure? I don't see a reason to. You just gain experience! I'm still going to the dance and pimpin those girls. Peace and good luck DJ brothas!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lildevil said:
hope you do better...because sometimes too much sucking takes a hit on you soooner or later
I disagree completely. Before I started being successful with women, I was rejected more times than I can count. The rejection discouraged me at first, until I realized that it wasn't me they were rejecting - they didn't know me - it was my game and the nervousness that took control of it. Eventually it fueled me to keep going and gradually I improved my game and I desensitized myself to my fear of approaching and I started getting success.

As long as you are understanding what you did wrong on each approach and how to rectify it; this is the most productive thing you could do to improve your game.
 

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redspicyflag said:
And I don't care! Failure leads to success, and I decided to crash and burn. Some of the girls had legitimate reasons, but others didn't. But like Michael Jordan said:



Why fear failure? I don't see a reason to. You just gain experience! I'm still going to the dance and pimpin those girls. Peace and good luck DJ brothas!

Ah THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS! This is just the encouragement i need!
Ive been stuck on this one girl for ages and sometimes you just need a good slap in the face to notice that you can keep putting things off to try and garuntee your success with that thing. There are plenty of damn fine fish in the sea, all of your choosing.

GET SOME, DJ's, GET SOME!!!!!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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