"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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And I don't care! Failure leads to success, and I decided to crash and burn. Some of the girls had legitimate reasons, but others didn't. But like Michael Jordan said:

I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
Why fear failure? I don't see a reason to. You just gain experience! I'm still going to the dance and pimpin those girls. Peace and good luck DJ brothas!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lildevil said:
hope you do better...because sometimes too much sucking takes a hit on you soooner or later
I disagree completely. Before I started being successful with women, I was rejected more times than I can count. The rejection discouraged me at first, until I realized that it wasn't me they were rejecting - they didn't know me - it was my game and the nervousness that took control of it. Eventually it fueled me to keep going and gradually I improved my game and I desensitized myself to my fear of approaching and I started getting success.

As long as you are understanding what you did wrong on each approach and how to rectify it; this is the most productive thing you could do to improve your game.
 

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redspicyflag said:
And I don't care! Failure leads to success, and I decided to crash and burn. Some of the girls had legitimate reasons, but others didn't. But like Michael Jordan said:



Why fear failure? I don't see a reason to. You just gain experience! I'm still going to the dance and pimpin those girls. Peace and good luck DJ brothas!

Ah THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS! This is just the encouragement i need!
Ive been stuck on this one girl for ages and sometimes you just need a good slap in the face to notice that you can keep putting things off to try and garuntee your success with that thing. There are plenty of damn fine fish in the sea, all of your choosing.

GET SOME, DJ's, GET SOME!!!!!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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