"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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redspicyflag

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And I don't care! Failure leads to success, and I decided to crash and burn. Some of the girls had legitimate reasons, but others didn't. But like Michael Jordan said:

I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.
Why fear failure? I don't see a reason to. You just gain experience! I'm still going to the dance and pimpin those girls. Peace and good luck DJ brothas!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lildevil said:
hope you do better...because sometimes too much sucking takes a hit on you soooner or later
I disagree completely. Before I started being successful with women, I was rejected more times than I can count. The rejection discouraged me at first, until I realized that it wasn't me they were rejecting - they didn't know me - it was my game and the nervousness that took control of it. Eventually it fueled me to keep going and gradually I improved my game and I desensitized myself to my fear of approaching and I started getting success.

As long as you are understanding what you did wrong on each approach and how to rectify it; this is the most productive thing you could do to improve your game.
 

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redspicyflag said:
And I don't care! Failure leads to success, and I decided to crash and burn. Some of the girls had legitimate reasons, but others didn't. But like Michael Jordan said:



Why fear failure? I don't see a reason to. You just gain experience! I'm still going to the dance and pimpin those girls. Peace and good luck DJ brothas!

Ah THANK YOU FOR POSTING THIS! This is just the encouragement i need!
Ive been stuck on this one girl for ages and sometimes you just need a good slap in the face to notice that you can keep putting things off to try and garuntee your success with that thing. There are plenty of damn fine fish in the sea, all of your choosing.

GET SOME, DJ's, GET SOME!!!!!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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