“We Are Together or Not, No Inbetween”

[Desdinova]

I would have responded "not" within 3 seconds of getting that text. Then I'd probably be fvcking her again a week later.

 

[AJ84]

3 years since separation in a few weeks. Joint Physical and Legal Custody with 50/50 Parenting Time. I don't talk to her or work with her via email/text in any way. I can't stand mom and she knows it. It's a firm "don't talk to me, ever" attitude since she attempted to undermine custody and stole the children away from me. Perhaps, that is for another post..

Since I pay her child support with the above stated, I treat her as a babysitter. Cheap one at that. I control the future by working with professionals, mediators and filing motions and marching her as to the courthouse if she does not agree with what I have proposed in the name of "best interests of the children". She has folded every time.

Full disclosure: I am still damaged from the effects of my family being tore apart and it is brutal dealing with her face to face, cops called to my house 5 times for "welfare checks", child protective women workers who absolutely have a hard on for me because I have proved my ex to be a liar and threatened their jobs but I always love my question I ask them "at the end of the day, who is their daddy?....am I their daddy?....ok then".

LTR is not in the cards for me now or in the future and I am upfront about that day one.

I have told several women know that I own the "Orgasm Express" and am the founder of "CBDT" - Cuck Blocker Distraction Team. I have learned, there are many good ones, and there are far more benefits to any woman dating me, than I dating her.

Yeah, it's good, for you, that you don't want anything other than some casual sex relief because you got a lot of more important stuff to deal with. It would be also be asking a lot of a girl to invest at this point anyway given the whole situation. I would suggest keeping the good sex going with her if she comes back around as you already let her know where she stands and also see what other girls are down for some casual stuff.

 

[marmel75]

There is a time you need to either sh!t or get off the pot....it always comes at some point and this appears to be that time for you.

 

[AJ84]

The right thing to do is to let her go. Wouldn't you want that if the roles were reversed?

If the roles were reversed he would be advised by everyone to run fast the other way.

 

[Chev.Chelios]

my stories similar to yours, only we never got involved with the family legal system.

recovering from the traumatic emotional drama men go through losing there girl and kids is fvcking impossible

when i was a kid fascinated with cowboy movies i and always wondered why
Clint eastwood would wander around the desert alone with his horse and guns looking like he wanted to chop everyone's head off, take there loot and bail...

becoming an adult now i know the fvck why! poor Clint probably lost his family because of a slvt and now he was mad.

family court is the most stupidest fvcking system known to man, being a 10 year old ALSO watching the drama unfold with my divorced parents i was sickened with it then and im even more sickened with it now. EX knows of she ever pulls that chit on me Ill just disappear from the face of the earth and go outlaw status

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

If the roles were reversed he would be advised by everyone to run fast the other way.

I sometimes wonder your intentions behind being here...

What are they?

 

[AJ84]

I sometimes wonder your intentions behind being here...

What are they?

What? Is that not true? If it was a woman who had that kind of baggage would guys here advise him to pursue?
The post was suggesting the OP to consider things the other way around.

So I guess, my intention in that case was to point out how that would go. In reality most men want to avoid women with the issues the OP has and I don’t blame them. I would too, to be honest. But if I’m wrong by all means show me the posts where men are being advised to continue relationships with single mothers going through custody battles with their ex’s with courts and child welfare involved. Just send me the link to all of those posts.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

What? Is that not true? If it was a woman who had that kind of baggage would guys here advise him to pursue?
The post was suggesting the OP to consider things the other way around.

So I guess, my intention in that case was to point out how that would go. In reality most men want to avoid women with the issues the OP has and I don’t blame them. I would too, to be honest. But if I’m wrong by all means show me the posts where men are being advised to continue relationships with single mothers going through custody battles with their ex’s with courts and child welfare involved. Just send me the link to all of those posts.

We’re good, I’m just being a ****head. But there actually are certain things—biological—that I could point out, and I have before. I just don’t want to have a several-day ongoing argument. (Maybe I’m ‘maturing’? )

 

[AJ84]

We’re good, I’m just being a ****head. But there actually are certain things—biological—that I could point out, and I have before. I just don’t want to have a several-day ongoing argument. (Maybe I’m ‘maturing’? )

I hear ya, I can't do those epic arguments, but I don't mind a bit of debate when there's stuff I can learn or an interesting perspective from which to see things.

 

[skinnyguy]

3 kids? Sheesh.

Tell this girl you guys are “together” while you still bang other women. Not to difficult

 

[JohnChops]

When men say "I don't really care," it means "I really care."

Bro if you are:

- textbook alpha
- can get laid alot
- lay down the law
- are very upfront

Why is ONE text from an EX making your head spin in circles?

Because he does not have a strong frame of mind....Yet.