Epicwinguy
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Can we stop saying a guy has to be “physically fit” to bang reasonably attractive women, and just say he needs 6 or 8 pack abs?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
A 6 pack is not enough unless there is a well made frame to begin with and even then you still need a decent height.Can we stop saying a guy has to be “physically fit” to bang reasonably attractive women, and just say he needs 6 or 8 pack abs?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Guys with confidence and dad guts are banging hos.... So don't let not having a 6 pack be a cop-out. Never the less put in the work so you look better naked.Can we stop saying a guy has to be “physically fit” to bang reasonably attractive women, and just say he needs 6 or 8 pack abs?
This might be a dumb question but how does this help? Why would any women see you shirtless before a date? Unless you have a shirtless pic on OLD.I have 6 pack abs and still have to deal with bs. Does it help me get dates and matches? Absolutely!
pic on OLD and it’s only useful in OLD or party scenarios. On dates, a girl can easily be intimidated by someone that’s more fitter than them.This might be a dumb question but how does this help? Why would any women see you shirtless before a date? Unless you have a shirtless pic on OLD.
There's no question that abs will get you laid more, but not so much if you're scrawny. You really need a decent overall physique too.
But it always makes me laugh when girls pretend they're above all that and would never be so shallow. What a load of crap. A good body raises your whole social value too, which is another factor that turns girls on. And it's something most men can achieve with a bit of dedication.
Guys with confidence and dad guts are banging hos.... So don't let not having a 6 pack be a cop-out. Never the less put in the work so you look better naked.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You don't need to be. Women have a wide range for what being fit means. I have women telling me their friends nicknamed me "muscles" even when I am 20 lbs over where I would consider myself in shape.Can we stop saying a guy has to be “physically fit” to bang reasonably attractive women, and just say he needs 6 or 8 pack abs?
Talk game is the winner. Women love being properly manipulated.Yeah. Having really good talk game can create a sense high status which can even trump looks. A lot of guys dont have that kind of talk game though. I only had it when i was doing cold sales and making youtube videos. If you got talk game and looks picking up women at bars becomes incredibly easy. With good looks/body alone you can just get drunk and grind on random girls and succeed though.
I know someone who is 6'6 and really thin. He doesn't have to say anything really. Girls approach him all the time at bars and even in the daytime at places like shopping malls. But to give him credit, he also approaches like crazy and always gets a lot of good numbers that lead to dates.
I have noticed that as well.B1tches have a lower and lower value day after day but higher and higher demands.
A 5'5" guy I know has said something similar. When he is heftier (not necessarily bulk muscle), he pulls more than when he is lighter.At 5’7 and an ectomorph, I pull better during bulk season. I’m around 170 lbs whole bulking, 160-165 while cutting. I look aesthetically better at the lighter weight, but pull less women. Go figure.
Probably a lil more "relaxed" with the extra fat and that works with your natural game. Leaner and meaner is a bit more of an assh0le and you haven't been able to calibrate that.At 5’7 and an ectomorph, I pull better during bulk season. I’m around 170 lbs whole bulking, 160-165 while cutting. I look aesthetically better at the lighter weight, but pull less women. Go figure.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Load of BS![]()
Survey Confirms Women Prefer Dad Bods over Six-Packs | Man of Many
Survey reveals women prefer dad bods over six-packs. Our verdict: dad bods are in, and more men embrace their natural physiques.manofmany.com
An 8 per cent increase in respondents reported that more Americans find the dad bod attractive (up to 65 per cent from 57 per cent). More people found the dad bod “sexy” (61 per cent over 51 per cent last year), and an additional 10 per cent think that the dad bod is the new six-pack (51 per cent up from last year’s 41 per cent).
This was a study conducted by bloated guys with dad bods. As the old saying goes, “history is written by he who holds the pen”![]()
Survey Confirms Women Prefer Dad Bods over Six-Packs | Man of Many
Survey reveals women prefer dad bods over six-packs. Our verdict: dad bods are in, and more men embrace their natural physiques.manofmany.com
An 8 per cent increase in respondents reported that more Americans find the dad bod attractive (up to 65 per cent from 57 per cent). More people found the dad bod “sexy” (61 per cent over 51 per cent last year), and an additional 10 per cent think that the dad bod is the new six-pack (51 per cent up from last year’s 41 per cent).
Most attractive chicks have already decided whether they’re gonna bang you or not before your shirt comes off to reveal your abs (or lack thereof)Can we stop saying a guy has to be “physically fit” to bang reasonably attractive women, and just say he needs 6 or 8 pack abs?
No.Can we stop saying a guy has to be “physically fit” to bang reasonably attractive women, and just say he needs 6 or 8 pack abs?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.