"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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“Be confident!” Is merely gum bumping, useless “advice”.

Jaws

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Women want men they are ATTRACTED to off the bat being confident, NOT a man they aren’t or never were attracted to being confident as all you become is a stalking, creeper, pest. A.K.A a delusional orbiter.


If anyone doesn’t want to get to know or invite another person into their world, let alone make them their all, being told to be “confident” is as “useful” and worthless as telling someone who never gets anyone being themselves, to “just be yourself”.

Yes. You should have confidence in yourself. But don't expect that just being "confident" in yourself entitles you to any woman you want.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Blocked.
 

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No doubt.

You gotta bring something to the table or being confident doesn't mean shyt.

Confidence is after the fact. Once you draw the bytch into your life, you have to have the confidence to lay pipe and check the bytch when she acts up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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