"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“Be confident!” Is merely gum bumping, useless “advice”.

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Women want men they are ATTRACTED to off the bat being confident, NOT a man they aren’t or never were attracted to being confident as all you become is a stalking, creeper, pest. A.K.A a delusional orbiter.


If anyone doesn’t want to get to know or invite another person into their world, let alone make them their all, being told to be “confident” is as “useful” and worthless as telling someone who never gets anyone being themselves, to “just be yourself”.

Yes. You should have confidence in yourself. But don't expect that just being "confident" in yourself entitles you to any woman you want.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No doubt.

You gotta bring something to the table or being confident doesn't mean shyt.

Confidence is after the fact. Once you draw the bytch into your life, you have to have the confidence to lay pipe and check the bytch when she acts up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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