“All the girls fancy you, but they think you’re gay.”

[Austin Allegro]

Originally posted by Dan_DJ
That's a difficult question. In most cases, you either have the "macho" image or you don't.

I think the best way to be is smart, but not prissy. Eg I know a man whom my female acquaintances were convinced was gay, because he had plucked eyebrows and a waxed chest.

I try to go for a smart but not overly groomed look. I usually wear a suit or a blazer but not a really flashy, fashionable one (like David Beckham would wear for example) and my hair is neat but not obsessively 'styled' and I don't wear much aftershave.

Another thing to avoid is tight white tee shirts, especially the ribbed ones, if you are quite muscly this tends to look VERY gay.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Originally posted by Dan_DJ
That's a difficult question. In most cases, you either have the "macho" image or you don't.

+ talk sex, talk about hot women, use them for picking up others, just be fulloutblown sexual Works.

 

[AMF]

Originally posted by Capi Crimini
Mainly people who just meat me.

lol

Tips for Not Being Called Gay:

1) Dont get meated
2) Dont get meated
3) Dont get meated

 

[Capi Crimini]

If you roughen your face you'd look more manly.

CHANGE YOUR WORDING.

FANCY sounds gay.

LIKE

Wanna F*ck

got the hots.

That there could be your problem

 

[Dirtheart]

Ok, thanks for the tips. I think I definitely need to be more sexual as I've always had a tendency to cringe from sexual topics and have tried way too hard to respect women for who they are.

I distinctly remember one time, I was lying in bed with a girl who was hot for me and I told her: "I'm not after one thing like most guys. I genuinely respect you as a person". As you can probably guess, we never had sex and she also asked me if I was gay.

I was totally AFC then and feel ashamed by it, but maybe I'm still carrying around a few residual AFC traits.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by Dirtheart
...I don't mind people wondering if I'm gay and I wouldn't want to risk losing friends, but at the same time I wouldn't want it to impair my chances with women...

don't worry and don't change a thing, they are just shaken up cause they finally ran into a guy that isn't all over them. It rattles their opinion of themself right down to the bone.

Since you are obviously a good looking guy, the rules are a bit different for you. Playing hard to get can make you appear gay or conceited. Good looks can be more of a curse than you realise, you'll see what I mean when you get older.

 

[RedZone122]

"are you gay?"

"why don't you come over and we'll find out"



Honestly - stop hanging out with women - they're awful

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Originally posted by RedZone122
"are you gay?"

"why don't you come over and we'll find out"



Honestly - stop hanging out with women - they're awful

No they are the best Great friends to hang with they are

 

[TyTe`EyEs]

Yeah, if you're gay.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Or if you are comfortable around women and not a fvcktard...

 

[mahon83050]

I have a friend who comes across as gay, but to my bewilderment he seems to do well with the chicks.

My friend was normal once, enjoyed sports and had no effiminate antics.

Ever since he went to Italy he has been obsessed with Italian culture and dislikes American things. He is now all artsy, wears womens jeans (because they are tighter and the "tight" look is the Italian look I suppose) when he walks, his ass has a sway to it and he puts his hands behind his hips like a fag.

I do not think he is gay, but he went to the far extreme with Italian fashion and culture. The kid would never be caught drinking a beer because it is too Un-Italian I guess.

Well, if you saw him you would think he was a fudge packer, but he still manages to score chicks and hook up. He is an attractive looking guy, but not masculine. It still blows my mind away that most chicks would not be turned off by his effiminate antics.