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[Clockwerk50]

Why are you sharing your location with her?

Anyways, yes, when you are dating someone new you will get these type of messages once or twice every trimester. This is a comfort test mixed in with a little compliance one. She is being insecure and uneasy and she wants reassurance from you. She is also checking whether you’ll stay calm, caring, and grounded instead of becoming defensive or dismissive. In addition, she is pushing for behavioural alignment to confirm if you’ll adjust to meet her emotional need for reassurance.

When a man acts too alpha, she’ll issue comfort tests driven by insecurity. These center on “I” - “I’m scared you’ll leave…” or “I feel….” They appear when she senses your SMV is higher or rising, fearing you might realize you can do better. You pass by reassuring her without losing frame. To gauge your masculinity, she will throw compliance tests, like “hold my purse,” to gauge your masculinity.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Am I on the good way ? View attachment 14855

BPD chick, run as fast as you can in the other direction.

Once she has gotten you to enter her world, the daily emotional rollercoaster will begin.

 

[AhGonlum]

Why are you sharing your location with her?

Anyways, yes, when you are dating someone new you will get these type of messages once or twice every trimester. This is a comfort test mixed in with a little compliance one. She is being insecure and uneasy and she wants reassurance from you. She is also checking whether you’ll stay calm, caring, and grounded instead of becoming defensive or dismissive. In addition, she is pushing for behavioural alignment to confirm if you’ll adjust to meet her emotional need for reassurance.

When a man acts too alpha, she’ll issue comfort tests driven by insecurity. These center on “I” - “I’m scared you’ll leave…” or “I feel….” They appear when she senses your SMV is higher or rising, fearing you might realize you can do better. You pass by reassuring her without losing frame. To gauge your masculinity, she will throw compliance tests, like “hold my purse,” to gauge your masculinity.

She is so mad I don’t get messages cause I don’t have my data open all the time.
She is litteraly crazy over me I guess.
Even if I don’t have the best game, my looks carry me.
And If I really follow the true player advice, generally women don’t want to see me again. Like that

 

[Vanderdonck]

Am I on the good way ? View attachment 14855

Messages not going through? WTF?

I don't think some people realize that the phenomenon of being almost always reachable is very recent. Nobody owes anybody their attention.

This woman needs to get a life. This would be a HARD next for me OP. As @BackInTheGame78 said she's possibly BPD and definitely showing signs of toxicity with this. This is how it often starts.

 

[Vanderdonck]

If you don’t like the guy, why would you post it on public story, while me, the guy she likes I am not in her public story

Three possibilities:

1) Who cares
2) She's got issues
3) Who cares

 

[AhGonlum]

She is becoming crazy if her messages are not getting delivered for 3 hours. Like she thinks I am seeing another girl.
Keep in mind we have seen each other for a month and half and she booked a trip for both of us in 2 weeks

 

[AhGonlum]

Something is very off also.
Every guy that likes her picture on ig which is at least a minimum good looking, she liked one of the guy’s picture back. But she likes the one that are like +6month old so if I ask she will say I know this guy from before. But the guy never liked any picture from months ago….

I say nothing but it is definitely not LTR material. And she tries to control me so bad. I see her game.
Maybe it’s just that she wants attention from the other guys but I will just enjoy her money and spendings on me, her cooking from now on

 

[AhGonlum]

Update : we still see each other and she pushed for us starting dating.
We have been travelling recently to abroad place (she paid train + hotel) I covered naturally activities + restaurant.
She presented me to her friend, I did the same and we will go with her friends to ski trip next week

 

[AhGonlum]

Update : she found my sosuave account.
Goodbye guys.
I lost a good potential partner to my life

 

[Scaramouche]

Update : she found my sosuave account.
Goodbye guys.
I lost a good potential partner to my life

No Mate,
If you get off this lightly,then thank your lucky Stars!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Update : she found my sosuave account.
Goodbye guys.
I lost a good potential partner to my life

Guess the troll has had his fun and has to leave now.

 

[Jor-El]

Dont you hate it when people answer their own questions ? I do