"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No Masturbation for 6 months! Join in!

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SamePendo

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I've had it.

Have you ever felt trapped to porn? To masturbation? Do you spend more time masturbating than necessary? Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn? Do you feel you are one step from reaching that point?

Well. I've had it. I'm not masturbating for 6 months.

I know, it's healthy, etc. If you don't feel like joining in, oh well. I still feel that even when I masturbate once every two, or three weeks, that time that I masturbate, I drain energy out of myself.

I'm suggesting other ways to drain that energy, like... say... real sex!



Two Rules:

1) NO masturbating.

2) Push yourself to be a man.

If you have the option of watching 3 hours straight of cable, or going out with a chick to the movies, or by yourself.. you go to the movies. Or you go out for a walk. Or study. You push yourself towards action, towards manhood.

You can watch porn if you want to, you can look at dirty magazines. You can spy on your neighbor, whatever wakes up the general.. you just CANT masturbate!

This will start on December 1st. I'm starting right now though. And it will go on all through the year till May ends.

Quitting is easy. You just quit and that's it. But, just as working out, it's usualy at least more fun when you do it with someone else.

No requirements, two rules. Sign in! :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn?
LOL! I hope no one has gone to such extremes as missing school, work, or important events just to have a wank.
 

ER!C L!VE

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Best of luck to you man. I'll not be joining in the festivities.
 

DJ_in_making

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half a year?

Might as well quit altogether if you're gonna go that long. Good luck though man. I hope you know your bodies gonna have nocturnal emissions to get rid of that excess sperm right?
 

mahon83050

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Originally posted by SamePendo
I've had it.

Have you ever felt trapped to porn? To masturbation? Do you spend more time masturbating than necessary? Does it ever get to the point where you skip meals, social gatherings, work, school so that you can masturbate a bit more, and watch more porn? Do you feel you are one step from reaching that point?

Well. I've had it. I'm not masturbating for 6 months.

I know, it's healthy, etc. If you don't feel like joining in, oh well. I still feel that even when I masturbate once every two, or three weeks, that time that I masturbate, I drain energy out of myself.

I'm suggesting other ways to drain that energy, like... say... real sex!



Two Rules:

1) NO masturbating.

2) Push yourself to be a man.

If you have the option of watching 3 hours straight of cable, or going out with a chick to the movies, or by yourself.. you go to the movies. Or you go out for a walk. Or study. You push yourself towards action, towards manhood.

You can watch porn if you want to, you can look at dirty magazines. You can spy on your neighbor, whatever wakes up the general.. you just CANT masturbate!

This will start on December 1st. I'm starting right now though. And it will go on all through the year till May ends.

Quitting is easy. You just quit and that's it. But, just as working out, it's usualy at least more fun when you do it with someone else.

No requirements, two rules. Sign in! :)
This has been an interesting debate on my behalf as well. To crank or not to crank? When is cranking it considered too much. Sometimes when I crank it too much, I have low self esteem.

However, I think it is necessary to do it atleast 2X a week. One has to release that sexual tension. I find if I do not wank it, by like the 3rd day, all I think about is sex and nothing else. Needless to say, it is torture.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ_in_making

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keep us informed on how your progress w/ chicks sky-rockets. I hear that crap has great benefits
 

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You'll be done by Xmas :)
or you'll be trying to bang Santa when he bends over to put the gifts under your tree.
 

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I'll join in. Sounds like fun. I want to see how my mindset changes. I haven't gone more than a week or two without jerking it since I was like 15.
 

Brian20o2

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Originally posted by BuckwildNYC
You'll be done by Xmas :)
or you'll be trying to bang Santa when he bends over to put the gifts under your tree.
:crackup:

But in all seriousness, 6 months? damn! I'll try going a week, then maybe 2. But 6 months?

Good luck. Your gonna need it.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I'm on 2 weeks and I can already tell that something is different. It's a feeling I haven't had in 10yrs, seriously.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i'm in...
 

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Re: half a year?

Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Might as well quit altogether if you're gonna go that long. Good luck though man. I hope you know your bodies gonna have nocturnal emissions to get rid of that excess sperm right?
I haven't done so in a month, and I'm already experiencing it. If my hand so much as brushes against my p*nis while it's hard, the fluids get excited and try to race to the exit hole.
 

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you guys are insane. I can't last 5 days. If I go to long I feel like I would f&*ck anything that moves. Every other day seems to be working good for me.

For those who are in the process of doing this, please elaborate on the change in your "state of mind"

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C00L

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can u jerk it without cumming?

we need some rules here...

whens the start date?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kerensky

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i'm in. imma have a good wankt onight though!

haha jp jp. i'm in though
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I feel more enthusiastic and more outgoing then what I used to be. There's like this surge of energy that courses through my veins... I feel more alert and my thought process is very sharp, and so is my wit.

In social settings, I make very diliberate eye contact with everyone i talk to.

It's that ALPHA state of mind without even thinking about it.

Women have been responding VERY well to this.
 

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add my name...

as for wet dreams... I'll I dunno... sleep 10 minutes at a time so i don't wet the bed
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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