Im sure Im not the only guy this has happened to but have you ever been in a crowded nightclub or restaurant restroom at the urninals and had the feeling the guy next to you was taking a little peek to see how he measures up or the guy stands out a bit for others to see? Have you ever done that out of curiousities sake and not being a h0mo? id guess its mostly curiosity or insecurity more than some guy being a h0mo but you don't know.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
foreverAFC
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Bumsniff said:
no.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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lmao
Actually, I've seen dudes at the urinal drop their pants and shorts to the ground and let their ass hang out... I always assumed they were queer...
Actually, I've seen dudes at the urinal drop their pants and shorts to the ground and let their ass hang out... I always assumed they were queer...
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No, I just take care of business and leave.
I don't really think about it.
I don't really think about it.
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Generally looking around in bathrooms yeilds dic-ks, sh-it and urine. I got over that sometime between learning to pee by myself and puberty...