"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Aazman

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Ive been reading it and i'm on lesson 11. However I'm a bit lost on what it exactly means. Could you explain it for me in more depth please?

Also i'm stuck with lesson 7- the idea of respect.
I've re read it repeatedly- but its all a bit confusing.

This is obviously for those who have read the Dj bible.

Thanks

Aaz

Here is the LINK if you want to read it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aazman said:
Ive been reading it and i'm on lesson 11. However I'm a bit lost on what it exactly means. Could you explain it for me in more depth please?

Also i'm stuck with lesson 7- the idea of respect.
I've re read it repeatedly- but its all a bit confusing.

This is obviously for those who have read the Dj bible.

Thanks

Aaz

Here is the LINK if you want to read it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=59150
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The idea is Self Respect. Not being a servant or a push over. Knowing that a man is king of his castle and a king doesn't bend over to kiss the queens arse. He treats her with respect but demands that she respect him as well.
 
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Aazman

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In terms of Lesson 13- surely acting immature is against teh idea of manlines. Or does it mean to act manly and just treat her as a kid?

if the latter- could you give me examples?
 
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Aazman

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also in terms of mutual respect- can you give me an example as the one there isn't that great.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Aazman said:
In terms of Lesson 13- surely acting immature is against teh idea of manlines. Or does it mean to act manly and just treat her as a kid?

if the latter- could you give me examples?
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The idea put across is trying to tell you to embrace your youth and not become dragged down with social expectations. In other words, always remember to have fun in your interactions with women. Acting immature however isn't advocated.

I also wouldn't call it 'act manly and treat her as kid' more: embrace your sexuality and genes and have playful fun with your girl.

Peace out
 
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