"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So you think you got it bad huh?

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No i never thought I had it bad

But yea, it would suck to be him. Good on him for making the most of himself
 

KarmaSutra

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I'd love for anyone to watch this then counter with something as idiotic as:

"I, I just can't approach. I'm not _____________ (insert useless adjective here) enough. "

This guy is a goddamned winner and a perfect example of confidence.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dannyrt34

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KarmaSutra said:
I'd love for anyone to watch this then counter with something as idiotic as:

"I, I just can't approach. I'm not _____________ (insert useless adjective here) enough. "

This guy is a goddamned winner and a perfect example of confidence.
Unless they feel in the blank with the word confident. But even then, there's no good reason to lack confidence.

Come to think of it, last week I went out to a local bar which is a hotspot for the college croud. There was one girl there that had some sort of disability with her legs and uses them crutches that are attached to her wrists to get around. And this girl was also drop dead GORGEOUS. Only when she walked you could tell something is wrong, other than that there was nothing wrong with her legs or anything, no deformity whatsoever. She actually had a nice round toned ass and my god she was just amazing. Beautiful eyes and face, and great body all around.

I was nervous to talk to her, but I just had to tell her that I found her extremely pretty. We chatted for a bit but nothing really came of it.

There really is no reason for anybody to hold anything back. If you do, you might as well start planning your funeral.
 

Prodigy746

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Many times we will make a big deal about something when its really not that big of a deal. Our hight, weight, smile, hands, pimples, hair style, etc... Some people have to go through much worse!!!!
 

tsmith2334

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awesome, thanks for the eye opener

volunteering at a soup kitchen always helps me keep things in perspective as well
 
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