Young black men who are poor often are very bold with women, where does this aggression come from and how can I mimic it? I'm a older black male and I've had my fair share of issues with confidence due to usually a lack of money ey ney.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I don't want this to come off as racist but
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1834167#post1834167"i dont want this to come off as racist but..."
lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.
I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
lol nothing constructive has ever been said after those words have been uttered.
I think this is a thing from the streets, if you've basically grown up on the street and watched people get stabbed etc you dont give a crap what some woman thinks about you. Im pretty sure they've learnt to just take what they want or they will go without. Now i sound racist and im black too!
Most of the women those type of guys go after are hootrats. Don't let them fool you into believing that they are just getting anyone they want. Most women worth getting with aren't going to have anything to do with a broke scrub.
What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.
Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
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What you should do is work on stepping your money and paper up.
Check out this message board. They have more of an urban perspective on this matter:
http://www.unitedplayersofamerica.com/
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So becuase you don't make any money like that does that mean you should hold off on meeting women till you're more financially stable? If you lose your job at 35 and move back home and your skillset is no longer in demand and most of the jobs in your field are shipped overseas are you gonna not date for years until your stable?
Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?
I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.
Don't you feel every man needs to get laid regardless of the situation?
I can't NOT think about women becuase I made errors in my past.