"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Francisco d'Anconia
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I think it would be helpful to find out what percentage of people posting here are worth listening to.
Also, if anyone started here as one option, and changed to another because of this site, I'd be curious about that too.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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comic_relief
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She just did not match my personality at all. I got three others in my pocket though.
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Hmm, so half of the people here have never even kissed a girl. I've been here a while, under this ID and another, and I'm sure the ratio would have been very different a couple of years ago.
Anyway, bumped for more data.
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I'm a #7 I think, maybe 6, but I have no balls. I blew so many opportunities before it's scary. If I fvcked every girl that threw herself at me, I'd be with 80 women so far.. Problem was a fvcked up childhood I think. Plus I had gynecomastia ever since I remembered myself. Plus in last two years I become a little fat..... In elementary school, or before that, I went as far as getting a chick to show me her stuff and I showed her my stuff. So it was good from an early age, but something got fvcked up when my father came back from jail and divorced my mother. Hmmm, I had so many issues growing up. I can only remember two father figures in my life, one of them was actually good with women, but it was soooooo long ago. It's gonna take some major work on myself, if you know what I mean.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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i voted myself #2 in this one by the way
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skip2mylou781 said:
What is the objective of these forums?
To help guys out.....
So you have more than half who need help, good stuff.
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You have probably never kissed a girl yourself, so why flame on others and write this crap.skip2mylou781 said:
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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JezDuffield said:You have probably never kissed a girl yourself, so why flame on others and write this crap.
LOL right loser, cuz calling someone a liar is soooo sauve of u to do
if anything, im a man-*****, which may be counterproductive cuz i now care about ***** less than ever before, i just get it when im horny
u "jez" ur ****in hilarious though!
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stop flamingskip2mylou781 said:
comic_relief
I've said this before but there's really not enough on this site with that regard, mostly suggestions on how to interact/communicate (I refuse to use the lame term 'game'), and not enough "how to wind up eye-to-eye with RECEPTIVE hotties"... Get me past step one and I'm fine!"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.