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My big problem now is that my state of mind is playing against me. I know that I need to bang other women, but my sadness makes my game go really down. I feel like I'm totally unable to escalate anything with any woman, even though I want to do it.

I totally agree with Ease. I really don't feel any good by having "dumped" her, because that wasn't what I wanted deep inside. But it's right that I realized that I would actually feel worse if it was her telling me it was over. The good thing is that I had always cared about other aspects...

Update Hi there fellas! Before telling what happened on Saturday, I guess it would be useful to tell you about her calling on me Thursday. She was crying on the phone, saying that her friend (my pal's gf) told her what he had seen. She told me that I shouldn't mix up things, that this...

Of course I'm going to post what happened here. Thank you all people! And chances are of 99% that it's gonna be really over. I don't intend to keep up with this kind of behavior, especially involving commitment. The only thing I cannot promise is that I'm going to just talk and walk away...

Kailex, it looks like she doesn't figured yet how much I know. Apparently, she thinks I'm doing this because of the facebook thing (although my decision began here). My pal knows who this guy is, and he has an girlfriend. Don't know if she only wanted to try something different or if she was...

Just another thing. I've liked to see how we have different opinions here. It's good to see that even though we have some standard situations, every relationship is unique.

Got some news! Yeah guys! It happened that some of you were right. She was really cheating on me. :cry: Yesterday my pal left his classes earlier and saw her and one "classmate" who was lying his head on her lap. She was so concentrated that she didn't see my friend even he passing in front...

Warrior, good idea on talking with my pal. Im gonna talk to him and ask if he has noticed any strange behavior. Thank you

It's not funny when you doubt my decision of NOT reinitiating contact... I have already explained why I disagreed with warrior's statement about my question to her. I think I don't need to say it again. When I get news Im gonna post them here. Don't worry, if ur right im gonna give u the...

Igetit, im gonna be honest. She said "I love you" first and she even uses to say that more than me. You can trust this! I have nothing to gain lying to you. After some thinking and discussion, I think that the first thing im gonna do is cut off long phone calls. 5-10 minutes max, only to say...

Darth, I asked this to press her to say if she was thinking about a definitive break up. I always encourage her to say what she thinks and this used to work in our relationship so far. She does the same to me too. But I see your point here and I'll try to work on this.

If ur right, I will obviously drop her. But I honestly disagree with you. She doesn't need to ask for a no-contact week to cheat on me. Besides, the only place where she could do it is her college, but my best friend studies there too and he would know (they spend most of the time between...

I really don't see where's the problem in keeping this secret. If she wanted to end everything, there would be no reason in asking this to be secret. I don't know if you read everything but what is happening is a try to make things better. And she definitely wasn't confortable saying this, I can...

The main reason why I don't want to just next is that sometime in my life I will have to deal with situations like this. Besides my feelings for her, I think this is a situation in which I can learn ways to recover a relationship and how to face these kind of problems. I appreciate your...

And thank you everybody for your attention!

I had already decided that I definitely won't call her first. And I was thinking about not answering her phone calls too (Knowing her, I believe they will come). I liked prodigy746's idea of calling later saying I was out with a friend. I know that perhaps it's game over but I really want to...

Hello fellas! I need some advice...My gf of 1.5 years has just suggested that we cut off contact temporarily (about 1 week) because she doesn't feels the urge of being with or talking to me as she felt on the start and wants to rekindle our relationship. We had a open talk about this subject in...

At first I thought I had no chance too...But sometimes she gives me some green lights, to the point that some of my friends say that she is obviously interested in me. I just want a tip on how can I isolate her from my other friends to try something...

Hey guys!...I need an opinion on my current situation... I've got interested in a close female friend of mine. As we are good friends for about a year, at first I thought I would have a hard time leaving the friendzone with her. She's very flirty with me and when I talked about my feelings...

I used to feel like that...I would recommend that you read a post called Downside of the Seduction Community. It will help you a lot to see the difference between what's relevant in the foruns and what only makes you confused.