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"Maybe i should stop being so selfless to people because they never find it in themselves to return the kindness, but instead soak it up and keep goin" Careful with the Martyr syndrome. Many people who do a lot for others feel they give too much of themselves and eventually come to resent...

It isn't a "we" that needs to talk. It is a "she" needs to talk.

You need to talk it out to a professional. A MALE professional

I second everything Kontroller said. The good news is the she isn't bipolar. She is simply immature. :)

In word: Open the file. On the Tools menu, click Options, and then click Security.

You didn't give any details about your gf situation, just your job situation. And yout went all emo about the girl without telling us any useful info to give advice. But if I were to guess, you are looking for internet strangers to give you permission to break up with her. Permission granted.

slaog: Gamble is also a handful He broke up with her because he assumed it was what she wanted. To prevent possible rejection. Gamble gets childish when he perceives things aren't going his way. Now, context wasn't given to why clubbing was such a bad thing to do with her sister...

Yes! Talk to her! Give her a medium slap on the butt and ask: "Didja like that?" Then slap her a little harder, then slap her a little more harder until she says to ease up. It is easier to assume permission than it is to ask for it

You need to have a macro game plan, all you have is a micro game plan. You need to be cool. Ask her out on dates, but no pressure to be bf/gf. Remember, you should always be asking the question in the back of your head "Is she good enough for me?" Be in the moment and watch out for red...

You didn't specify a time-frame for this behaviour. If they start it too quickly then you could be turned off by their neediness. If they start it after a reasonable amount of time say 3-4 months then a couple things might be happening. 1) Your feelings have not grown towards her, and...

High stress is the reason for your low sex drive. You are normal, it is ok, just ride it out. Also, it might be good for you to talk to your gf (not during sex) that your low sex drive is temporary and ask for understanding.

You rewarded her bad behaviour (breaking up when she got mad) by sexing her a week later? You are in deep **** because you tolerate disrespect.

You want the last word, but guess what it doesn't work that way. She is clamouring for your attention and any contact right now will give that to her. You job is to forget about her and her neediness. You may have to block her number to do it.

Well done! NEVER stop! Busting her (and other people's) ball is now your way of life. Work it, practice it, reap the rewards. :)

Cashew - relax! He's teasing you!

You obviosly didn't care then, why do you care now?

Also learn something from this about yourself. Her insulting email/texts bruised your ego made caused you to defend yourself. As you found out the hard way, that contributes to the drama. Feeling that you need to get the last word in is your ego.

Your reaction reeks of insecurity. You've indirectly accused her of cheating - even thought she was honest and hasn't cheated. Oh, and you called her a liar by not believing that she just wanted to get rid of him. It is one thing to protect your heart, and it is another thing to expect...

Sounds like she is doing both of you a favor.

The name of the game is called patience. Right now she is doing what she can to preserve her personal power. Although if she still doesn't trust you at 6 months, that might mean a serious evaluation of the relationship.