So "you can't show interests in her or invite her to meet you", but at the same time you "have to show her that you're the kind of guy she wants."
This is an impossible problem. She has to meet you to see what you're like as a person, but she can't meet you because you can't show interest...
Uhm... it didn't work out... I'm not sure what you want us to tell you. Do you enjoy self inflicted pain? She's not going to all of a sudden change. It's going to be more of the same except now that you've been AFC she knows she has power over you so the real games can begin.
Force Loneliness... yeah ok. Someone put a gun to that guys head, forced him over eat until he was fat and unattractive to women, and then forced him to sit on youtube and cry like a school girl.
This one is easy... To pick up religious girls you need to pray more. Pray that these girls will hook up with you 5 times a day and then it will happen.
Dude, you asked the girl what she thought about you in the looks department. That's like putting your insecurities on a billboard. You should have been qualifing her... instead you were helping qualifying yourself.
She probably strips for guys on a daily basis... and talks to them about sex...
Dude, if you hang out with low status males then that makes you look low status. There's no need to burn bridges but no one would go out intending to pick up girls with losers.
She's got your balls in a vice... literally. She's not into you. She's just using you in the mean time until something better comes along. You'd break it off first if you were smart.
Uhm, you don't need to tell her "you don't want to have sex with her" unless she makes a move on you. Would you go around and tell your coworkers\classmates that you "don't want to have sex with them"? Of course not.
When you watch television, do you ever see a television show that shows guys sitting around playing video games all day? Why not? Because it's not interesting.
Quit lying to yourself. If you want to avoid the ackwardness at work then don't get involved with her. You should never call her since you value your job.
It's easy for people to say things over email\text. Sig freud invented a lot of psychology concepts, he had people lay back in a chair because it was easier to say things without looking at someone. Church confessionals work the same way.
He's a wuss. :)
Dude, I'm seeing a lot of issues here. There's a lot of threads about why you shouldn't date coworkers. If you have a crappy job that doesn't matter then date away... but otherwise you can't expect to be professional at your job and date the women there. Women should not take priority over your...
I'm going to just get mad at you and beat you up, that's what I'll do. :) I certainly have things that need improvement, there's no doubt. I plan to continue practicing my game... and make improvements in my life. Whenever opporitunites arise I've tried to force myself to take action, even when...
There's just something so much fun about saying "you're such a lucky girl..." and they think a compliment is coming... and then you give them a roller coaster and compliment yourself. LOL... but Yeah probably not optimal strategy
I don't think I care much about the outcome, more about experimenting and having fun. But I was certainly interested in finding a good way to answer a question like that... incase I run into it again.
Obviously I stole some excellent ideas from various people to write that but it was still good stuff... and it worked... she liked option 4 and surrendered haha.
On 5/6/08, I wrote:
LOL!!! Thanks for the laugh. I'll tell you what, I'll do you one better and give you 5 reasons you should...
Haha, I sent her a good message back and got her phone number, she got pretty defeated. So now I'll try and get a date setup. Thanks a lot for the help fellas.
So, I know some of you dudes are anti-internet but I've been bored at work with some free time. I've been exchanging emails with this 25 year old girl HB8 enjoying myself. I've made her jump through all kinds of hoops and asked her "what are three qualities about yourself that would make me want...
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