"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Writing on my hand + sex question

faiNt`

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Two questions

Girl A wrote "I love 'her name' ..." on my hand .. is that mean she's interested or just sees me as a friend and it's a joke? I couldn't tell tbh.

Girl B gave me her number after I told her to and said we should hang out and I said I'd call her over summer. How do I let her know I don't want to have sex with her without acutally saying it, becuase that would be weird. She's already told me she would.

Highlighted questions for optically challenged :p


EDIT:// Ok so today was last day of school, short classes basically everyone talking blah blah .. Girl A tells me to sign her arm cus she doesn't have a yearbook. I write something like "stupid idiot face" and sign my name. She laughs then wants to write on my shirt. She writes "I heart stupid idiot face" on my shirt .. that's two days in a row ..
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uhm, you don't need to tell her "you don't want to have sex with her" unless she makes a move on you. Would you go around and tell your coworkers\classmates that you "don't want to have sex with them"? Of course not.
 

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faiNt` said:
Two questions

Girl A wrote "I love 'her name' ..." on my hand .. is that mean she's interested or just sees me as a friend and it's a joke? I couldn't tell tbh.

Girl B gave me her number after I told her to and said we should hang out and I said I'd call her over summer. How do I let her know I don't want to have sex with her without acutally saying it, becuase that would be weird. She's already told me she would.

Highlighted questions for optically challenged :p
Girl A IS interested . Or was . I dont know .

I dont understand about Girl B . Why dont you want to have sex with her ? What you want her to say to you " I WANNA HAVE SEX " ?
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Girl A IS interested . Or was . I dont know .

I dont understand about Girl B . Why dont you want to have sex with her ? What you want her to say to you " I WANNA HAVE SEX " ?

So girl A is 100%?

And I don't want to have sex with girl B because I don't really like her. Don't get me wrong she's prolly a 7, but I don't really like her that much. She's fun though :crazy:
 

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ROFL , now i understood what you meant .

GIRL B

Just dont give her signs of interest . Always say to her that she's good friend , talk to her about other girls you like ask her about her boyfriends . This way you're going to end up in FRIEND ZONE .

GIRL A

Is not 100% . But these are flirty games. Give it a shot . Try .
Get her number , get out with her and do your moves :D .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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With Girl A you need to be a little assertive here. Don't be so afraid of rejection, especially if you're not escalating as fast as others might. Go at your own speed, but make moves. Otherwise you're just not going to do it for her. Always hold frame.
 

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I have both girls' numbers already.

Girl A told me I wouldn't see her till next year unless I called her over the summer. I think I already asked this b4, but that's her way of telling me that she wants to hang out?

EDIT:// The thing is, most girls have to speak in f*cking code. Girl B DOESN'T. She says straight out what she is thinking. That's such a turn on .. I don't know why
 

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faiNt` said:
I have both girls' numbers already.

Girl A told me I wouldn't see her till next year unless I called her over the summer. I think I already asked this b4, but that's her way of telling me that she wants to hang out?

EDIT:// The thing is, most girls have to speak in f*cking code. Girl B DOESN'T. She says straight out what she is thinking. That's such a turn on .. I don't know why
Regarding Girl A: Dude, you're more oblivious than I was when I was 16, and that is pretty bad. How could you NOT realize that is a sign of interest? Call her as soon as you finish reading this post.

Regarding Girl B: I don't get it. You say what she's doing is a turn-on, but in previous posts you say you don't want to have sex with her.

My vote is hook up with them both all summer. That's what summer is for!
 

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You are obviously obsessed with girl A to be going so nuts over what writing on your hand means. Jesus. Girls mess about like that all the time, with me too, even if they don't fancy me. She might do though going by OTHER things you said, so yer hook up.

And with girl B, it should be pretty obvious how to not get into a position where you are having sex with her, answer: don't just sit there smiling as she takes your clothes off, or starts really going for it with you. If she makes a move on you, just use a girl move and say something like "I don't really think of you like that, sorry."
I'd def get with them both, it's just I don't want to go as far as sex with B, so I was thinking like if I was hooking up with her and she started to try it, what would I do/say to not make it akward as hell ..

I don't thinik I'm OBSESSED with A, but I do like her alot. I wouldn't really think much of this normally, but she did it again today (edited my first post)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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