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Good advice. I would also recommend though you that you clearly convey your intentions (more than just friend) BEFORE you ask her out, because way too many guys in highschool hide behind the "let's hang out phrase" which feel so comfortable because if the girl says no, then hey, it was just a...

Babnik, I know exactly what you're talking about man. I find it extremely difficult to kino girls on dates if they don't know that I'm sexually interested in them first. I have an answer for you, that's worked for me. First off, I disagree with delta in that you should NEVER show your...

What do you mean by "ease into it"? If I'm already doing light kino like touching her arm / shoulder, how is there possibly a better way to "ease into it"? And yes, she's just a friend, but then how does anyone convert a friend into something more if not by kino? Also, since this girl...

I've gone out with this girl twice but I'd consider us just friends--i'm trying to change that through kino into something more

Delta, what do you usually say to a girl when you ask her out?? Do you phrase it somewhere along the lines of "do you wanna hang out tonight?"

I wanna hold hands with this girl while we're walking, but I'm not sure how to go about doing it. I touch her on the shoulder / arm constantly while we're walking, and she usually laughs and smiles everytime I touch her, but I'm not sure how to transition from this to holding hands, which...

This is going to sound harsh, but clearly she doesn't wanna go out with you, because she's making all of these bull**** excuses. Think about it--if a girl you were really attracted to asked you out on a date, would you tell her that you're "tired?" Forget her and move on. I'm sure there...

If I were to say (authoritatively) "give me your hand" while we were walking or in the movie theater, then just hold it and resume normal conversation, would this seem weird?? Or should I try this? I feel that I've already expressed sexual interest verbally ("That's so cool-I love girls...

then how come I hear so many stories of guys getting pushed away, slapped, etc. when they try to bust a move?? or girls saying "NO X, I thought we were just friends" How do I even know whether or not she's expecting me to make a move?? She shows no physical signs other than constantly...

Unorthodox, as much as I wish your 3-step solution works, I have been bodybuilding for a while now and have a pretty damn muscular physique with low body fat and a six pack. I eat virtually no sugar and stay away from fatty foods. Yet I still don't have the confidence to kino...so what...

Re: Skip, If I can't even touch her on the shoulder, there's no way I could see myself just picking her up all of the sudden out of the blue. As for kino'ing in the movie theater, I just feel like it would come across as very cheesy and inappropriate. For example, let's say I was watching...

These are all good suggestions, but I just feel like it would seem very awkward and incongruent with me to do them (even when I picture it in my head). I keep imagining her looking at my hand when I put it on her shoulder or knowing that locking arms to cross the street is just a cheap excuse...

Girls are always *****es over the internet (or atleast if not *****es, much more rude than they are in person), so don't even allow the opportunity to mess things up this way. It's almost like walking right into a trap which you could easily detour around by using the phone or arranging the...

Is kino expected on the first date? I've been out with this girl once. We went to dinner and the movies, but what sucked about these places was that they didn't lend any opportunity for kino whatsoever. And now i'm clueless as to where I could take her next. I know I could take her for ice...

Of course, dude, this is obvious. I've read the DJ Bible but nowhere in the bible does it describe these situations nor does it ever explain how to improve your ability to spontaneously be funny / charismatic, beyond common sense things like smile, make eye contact, etc. If someone could...

Re: I appreciate a lot of your advice guys, but I have some comments. Delta, I agree with you that not every girl wants to be part of the alpha guy's harem, but it always seems like whenever I try to engage one of the girls while the amog is talking, she doesn't wanna listen because she's...

I'm tired of being in a situation as a college freshman where it feels like a competition between me and several other guys to get the attention of a girls. For example, if it's 4 of us guys eating dinner with 4 girls in the cafeteria, it always seems to turn into a contest to see which guy can...

I consider myself pretty damn experienced at the college classroom approach, and what I've learned is this: what you say really doesn't matter UNLESS you're approaching a group of girls sitting together in adjacent seats, which I wouldn't recommend, because in this situation everything you say...

I'm gonna pose a scenario that I find myself in VERY frequently and need advice on. You initiate a convo with an HB sitting near you in a large lecture room, and you hit it off quite well--she's laughing, good vibes, etc. The next day you arrive to the same class and spot her sitting in a...

1. Get your friends #'s. If they are really your friends, it shouldn't feel that weird. "Yo dude, give me your # so we can chill this weekend." It's that easy. Or if you really don't wanna do that, atleast show some interest in parties and events like that--maybe the guys you sit with at...