"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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College Game Scenario: Need Help

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Jester090

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I'm gonna pose a scenario that I find myself in VERY frequently and need advice on. You initiate a convo with an HB sitting near you in a large lecture room, and you hit it off quite well--she's laughing, good vibes, etc.

The next day you arrive to the same class and spot her sitting in a completely different area of the lecture hall. In this situation, would you get up and go all the way over to her and sit next to her in her new seat? Or does this show desperation (like your chasing her)? Or do you sit in the same spot as before, accepting the fact that you won't be able to talk to her anymore.

Let's assume that this class is the only time you see the girl.

Would what you guys do??
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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There's nothing wrong w/ sitting next to her that's just where you happened to want to sit and if you already had a good vibe, continue to interact w/ her or the realtionship will DIE. I doubt she saw you already sitting (did she?) and if she did so what? For all she knows ur sitting next to her b/c you can see the lecture better. Needy depends on how you go about it *good body language is a plus. :up:
 
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