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    Crushing on celebrities

    If she's that obsessed about it, there's definitely a problem. You really have to see where you fit into her weird little world. You should let her know how it feels to be on the receiving end of that. If my girls starts talking about Orlando Bloom or whatever, I just talk about how...
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    value of sex 4 women in a relationship

    Anyone else have a general hierarchy of needs for a woman in a relationship? Women definitely need sex. Though they probably don't need it as much as men, does everyone believe it would land in a woman's top 5 needs in a relationship?
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    My gf keeps telling me how hot her guy friend is

    Well said JC. When a woman is being blatantly disrespectful, you have to call her on it. It's amazing how many girls lack respect and tact. You should definitely tell her that she's being disrespectful and that you expect more from those around you. If she apologizes and admits that she's...
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    virgins?

    Finding a virgin can be tough but it's definitely not impossible. I've been with my virgin gf for 7 months. Your best bet for finding a virgin at your age would be finding a highly religious girl...so you'd probably find most of those at a bible study or at church. Having a relationship with...
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    broke up but is still friends

    Why'd you break up with her if she was so incredibly different from every other girl out there?
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    I have a gf and she has a bf

    I agree...if a girl's willing to cheat with you, what's gonna stop her from cheating on you in the future? This girl can't seem to make up her mind about who she wants to be with, is that a desirable quality for you? Yeah I guess it sucks that she hasn't left her bf, but why haven't you...
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    Girlfriend has many male friends

    I generally wouldn't have a problem with a girlfriend having male friends, since I have a lot of female friends. But I think it's important that you assess whether or not any of these "friends" are actually a threat. If she hangs out with 10 afcs b/c they grew up together and went to school...
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    A guy's height

    Sure height matters to some people more than others, just like a good looking face or good body matter more to others...but does it really matter? What's the point of worrying about something that's beyond your control? To worry about what you don't have is to waste what you do. So just...
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    gf asking for a massage...

    Okay, so a mutual friend of me and my gf needed to get a book for a class she took last year, and when he offered to pay she told him not to pay with money cuz a massage from him would be worth more. She's a volleyball coach so she's often sore, so I do give her massages pretty often, and they...
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    my feelings towards my gf are diminishing, help!

    Good idea Vibe...spur of the moment dates are great. I remember one night when my gf and I just kind of randomly went out after doing hw, stopped at a random place to eat and decided to see a movie, it was one of our more fun dates. It's so easy to stop doing fun stuff...it was especially...
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    Rnadom Question: Can you love a girl and still cheat on her?

    I say no. A big part of love is respect and if you're willing to cheat on someone and hurt them, then you don't have respect for them. Can you have feelings for someone and cheat on them? Yes. Can you care about a person to a degree and cheat on them? Yes. But you cannot love someone and...
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    my feelings towards my gf are diminishing, help!

    I know the feeling man...I've been in an LTR for the last 7 months and have felt my IL drop drastically a lot recently, and I considered moving on, but I figured we were so compatible that I couldn't just give up without trying something. This past weekend all the good feelings came back when...
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    What to do when your IL drops...

    There's so much talk about keeping a girls IL high and whatnot, and I've learned so much from sosuave.com and this forum, but does anyone have any insight into when your interest level drops in a girl. I've never had this problem before b/c I'd just date girls pretty unseriously, but I've been...
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    Is it too much to ask...

    Is it too much to ask that my gf not hang out with guys that she "used to have feelings for" or hooked up with? My girl has quite a bit of guy friends, and in general I really don't care if she wants to hang out with them. I have female friends that I hang out with, and study with and whatnot...
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