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My confidence comes from what I'm doing in my own life. To me, that's the ultimate confidence. If you're excited about life, if you've got alot to look forward to, if you're really engaged in the world each day.....it's hard to let what someone says bring you down. I also know, with 100%...

Excellent! Another tour de force from the pookster. You really should be out writing books and doing seminars. You've written some of the best posts that I've ever read ANYWHERE on the internet. Very powerful.

Those are certainly foundational tactics. Attitude reigns supreme. That's the pillar you build everything else around. You've got to believe, of course she could be my girlfriend. I never liked making fun of anyone. It seemed contrived to me. Women don't care about lines, ****y and...

Haha....I'm from the center of the materialistic universe, Southern California. Seriously, I grew up in the wrong part of the country. I'm dying to meet a sophisticated, smart, cultured, engaging and feminine woman around my age. The culture also seems VERY anti-intellectual. There's...

I'm 26 now and for the last 5 or 6 years, I've felt EXTREMELY disconnected from the culture at large. The whole MTV/bling bling/party world is just a different reality. It might as well be on Mars. I love sophistication rather than dumbed down luxury. Class rather than immaturity...

Like many of you, I initially came here and spent MONTHS pouring over all the material. C&F, Kino, EC, drilling all of it into my mind. But then I learned something really interesting..... If you spend more time improving your life, you'll naturally improve your game about 1000x fold...

A few years ago, when I was in school, I had this massive crush on an Art Prof. At the time I was a stuttering AFC with bad posture and a big imagination. Somehow, someway, I wanted to make out with this gorgeous woman (she was late 30's, early 40's, jet black hair, sophisticated, sexy, funny...

She was testing you out big time by looking down and looking away when you asked her out. You said yourself that she has turned all the guys down at the place asking her out. You need to show her how big your balls really are to land a date. How about this C&F/neg hit- "Hey, lets go out...

I voted for fatties, although their are exceptions. I'd rather do an attractive and chubby blonde than some masculine butch chick with an ok body. You know the gay organization, GLAAD? Often times on TV, they'll have some sort of spokeperson on defending gays and lesbians. And the person is...

Worrying about what your girl will think should have been the least of your worries in this situation. Hmmmmmm: It's dark out, there are numerous drunk guys trying to start a fight with you, they are banging and kicking your car. If you get out of the car, they aren't going to suddenly calm...

Ugly girls approaching you is generally a good thing. It means you're on the right path. Last year at school I was approached by a 5"1 Warpig Hb1. One of those nasty looking girls that trys to be fashionable, but isn't (like wearing a skirt, but it looks bad on her pale legs). Just trying...

Dementia, it's going to be hard to beat that one!! Some of my WBAFC moments: Writing a girl poetry that I met over the net, lol. I spent literally HOURS on it. Making it rhyme. Just some stupid stuff, like, "we listened to depeche mode and had lots of fun. The two of us can share special...

It's not made up. Check out the DJ Bible.

A few points: Every guy on here (or at least the vast majority) have been in this type of situation. They talk to some hottie, they think it's going one direction, then she turns and it looks like all is lost. It's always a stepping stone rather than a bottomless pit of self pity and regret...

How long did the EC last uninterrupted? After awhile, it produces this falling in love type feeling. An underrated aspect of it is that it stirs up a womans emotions (that's your number one goal as a DJ; get her feelings involved).

I've seen the E Harmony TV commercials. I laugh! The guy who is pitching them (I think the founder) is way too AFC and happy go lucky. All of this stuff is fantasy. Women live in a fantasy world. A world of "soul mates", of deep bonding, of white knights on horses that will magically pick...

I saw this movie recently and it was superb for aspiring DJ's. Richard Gere epitomizes an alpha DJ in his role as the street hustler, Jesse Lujack. He had a fling in Vegas with this knock out French girl and he goes to LA to try and win her back. He radiates confidence and energy. He is...

You have to consider the context in which this is happening. Slapping girls asses in public will most likely get you arrested or sued. Staring and whistling at girls and trying to run them over with your dominance in a public place won't get you far. The missing ingredient is rapport. Break...

Cialdini's book is brilliant. Highly recommended for anyone in business. You see the principles all the time when dealing with women. Social proof - Easy. Walk into a bar or club with 2 hotties on your arms and you'll have instant social proof and status. You've just gone up in other...

It's like the difference between Stifler from American Pie and James Bond. They're both masculine but they show it in different ways. There's the loud frat guy, party animal type. Prone to do wild and crazy things. Spontaneous and hyper active. Then there's Bond, Marlon Brando, etc. More...