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    Are some situations just not worth analyzing?

    See what you guys think of this. I meet this girl from online. She is actually local and we have mutual friends. We get on just fine and its all pretty tame. A few drinks, she drops me off home. I could have kiss closed, but I choose not to... I.e act a bit aloof and say cool, I'll speak...
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    Favourate Openers

    Hey all, Just curious what your favourate openers are? I consider myself to be moving away from chump status in my mindset and knowledge but am still plucking up thye courage to be able to approach women easy and get rid of that rejection feeling. I am curious as to what your openers...
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    Funny thing to do if you get the chance

    I just watched Nick Cannon's show on mtv and one of the sketches was about the guys having to approach one of the girls with their best lines... One guy approached a girl and he was talking on the phone as he approached... Whilst talking he signalled to the girl to wait a min whilst he...
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    taking action....

    Hi everyone, First off, I swear to go I am going to make 2006 a good year for me with women. I think in 2005, I got laid like 6 or 7 times.... Clearly not enough!!! I just started reading the 6 week bible, just done day 1 and the first thing that hit me is that most of the damn women I...
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    when to call

    Hi all, I met this girl at a club on Friday... I gave it the ****y and funny approach and she loved it. I was a little drunk but I do remember making some jokes about what she was wearing and the town she was from and she kept playfully hitting me because of the jokes.. We had a kiss...
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    why does she seem distant?

    Hey all, Whilst I am still learning from these forums - I still have some to learn! So bear with me... ;) I'd like some sensible opinions and perhaps a strategy to deal with this girl. Why am I putting this amount of effort into this girl? Well... because I do like her and possibly see...
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    need some help - oneitis and slipping into afc

    Hi all, I have always struggled with falling for someone way to quick and getting hooked on them. I REALLY want to change. I need some help from some helpful people ;) Not just saying don’t be a wuss, read the bible - but really understanding where I am coming from and trying to help me...
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    making the first move

    I got a feeling that I already know the answer to this one, but hey I am going to be a chump and ask it anyway ;) There’s this girl I kind of like. I'm not all going to get one-itis, don't worry it’s not like I really, really like her. Put it this way, I'd like to get laid and have some fun...
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    Dating websites

    Hey all, I was wondering what everyones opinion on dating websites were? I was looking at www.datingdirect.com I'm guessing a lot will say just get out there and meet people, which I AM trying to do, and I AM making definite steps to moving away from being AFC, but it struck me that a...
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    She has a boyfriend... How to tell if she is up for it?

    Hi, Fairly new to the whole game of dj'ing so bear with me! ok, theres this chick from my old school I ran into about 4 months ago.... We didn't speak too much at school as I was pretty shy, but we ended up having some great conversations when I saw her out in clubs 2 or 3 times over the...
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    First date

    Hey, I need some help on a first date. Some background. I registered a while back because I needed more sucess with the ladies. I guess I took the easy way out and didnlt hang about and since then I have had no luck, hence back here and serious about changing. I set up a date this week...
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    help me with the next step

    Hi, Guys I need your expert help. I am sick of being a shmuck with the ladies. 2 years with little luck means I have to step up my game. Hell well actually get one lol I got a text message from someone the other day which gave me a simple compliment. Came as a bit of a shock as I did...
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    new here - need help

    Hi everyone. First off I am new to the forums and came here looking for some advice. Basically I got with my first girlfriend when i was 18 and we had a 6 year relationship which I ended a year ago. Things weren't going right at all and I knew that she was not the one. Man I knew about 3...
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