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Instead of making her nervous by 'forcing' her to move faster, make her feel more comfortable by complimenting her on what she does (i.e. wow you're a good kisser, i love it when you etc...) and she'll become more confident and therefore more willing to intiate some action.

The first one may come off as you sounding too self important. The second is basically a cheesy pickup line. Keep it simple. And for god's sake don't use msn to ask a girl out on her first date. Try a variation on the third, "...it'd be great if we went ________ sometime. When are you...

A smile is a sign of confidence and being relaxed. Smiling is one topic where 'just be yourself' plays in. But like some others mentioned, don't smile for no reason at all, you'll look like a crackhead. Just on a more interesting observation now that you mention it, I have two photos on...

Try to avoid overanalysis - it sounds like you had a good time, and she had a good time. Don't criticize yourself for things like "damn, didn't use enough kino, what was wrong with me tonight". I usually call the night after a date if it went well and I'm interested, then I won't call again...

Good post jb, very mature and thoughtful insight.

2 things: get their numbers, not their email addresses. secondly, your friend who owns a popular club is GREAT social proof. That is all.

Highschool girls are extremely cautious about their image, so dating some random freshman (especially if they were a sophomore) would be disastrous to their reputation/status. Instead of just approaching her blindly, first try this - a smile when passing by the halls. Then you get some...

It sounds like you're just too scared to intitiate anything with this girl, not that you don't care. You're saying I need to do this, I need to do that, then you mix in a few lines of Bible talk. Whatever. Just call her and tell her you're taking her out on a date, then maybe you'll actually...

Either you calmly tell her that you're tired of her being overprotective and overcontrolling of you, and that you've grown up, or you scream that at her. Just do it. Stop being whipped. Be a man.

Does your gf have a history of psychological problems or something? It's either that, or she's an attention wh*re. If I were you, I would next her - it might be cute if she did it once, but every day? Holy ****.

She probably got bored of you. See if she's free anytime soon, and take her on a unique date. If she still seems to have no time for you, then you should talk to her about it / get ready to next her.

No messages if you haven't even spoken to her yet. Try calling at some different times, she may just never be home at certain times (i.e. work, etc.).

You've liked her for two years and you haven't even talked to her? Well it doesn't matter whether or not she thinks you're a wussy, you ARE a wussy. Go talk to her man! What are you waiting for? The only thing you should be waiting for is tommorow. In the meantime, read a bit of the DJ...

Unrealistic and overblown. What's really to stop her from cheating? Well, if your relationship is a strong one and means enough to her, she'll use her head and avoid doing anything stupid. If not, well then she'll f*ck him. There's really no point discussing it or worrying about it, like...

A dinner + comedy show followed by a nice dessert place would make for a fairly enjoyable first date. Remember, it's how you appeal to her and vise versa that reflects the successfulness of the date, not where you went, which is why the movie/dinner date is used so often as a first date and...

You've got a deep rooted psychological problem at hand here that only you can figure out. You can't let restrictions in life stop you from living life to the fullest. Afraid of consequences? Then face them headon and deal with them. You've got to stop hiding and sneaking around one day.

Is your girl 10 years old or something? You shouldn't have to put up with this bullsh*t. Why the hell would you try to make her smile every day if you knew she was just f*cking with you? She knows she has absolute control over you, because you're willing to slave over her like that. Next...

Just call back later at a time where she's more likely to be home. For intial phone contact, when you're just setting up a date, avoid talking too much. Maybe make her laugh once or something, but keep it brief, this maximizes the amount of conversation available for the first date. Good luck.

Who the f*ck says "euu" when someone flirts with them? She's obviously either not attracted to you or she's 10 years old. No kiss after 3 weeks? Asking for a hicky over the phone isn't a very seductive way of initiating that. Maybe she just moves slow, but overall she sounds like someone that...