New Year

[intraining]

Well its 2004 and its time i step it up for once and try and do something about my love life.Right now i really dont care about having a girlfriend but in the past it really took a toll on me.At that time i was so afc to the max it was crazy and now i think im not but im sure theres still some around.I finally have the mindset that my life wont get better if i have a girlfriend so it doesnt bother me anymore.All i need is family and friends girls are just another thing to make you happy.Heres my situation

My friend told this girl about me over aim and she imed me one day(2 years ago).We talked a lot but never meeting and she would tell me how she thinks im a great guy but we havent even met.So during the two years to this date shes always talked about meeting me and we should do something some time.I always said sure but we never did anything and i really didnt care(live in the same state not to far) it got to the point that she would ask me every 2-3weeks but nothing ever happened.Now she says we really need to meet up seriously so she must really want to do something.Shes going on pretty strong after talking to her for about 2 years now and im thinking might as well do somethin and see how it goes.She suggest eating now i have to make sure to block out all that AFC bs and not pay for her.So what do you think.

To end this post i just want to say that doing the whole internet thing is a waste of time.Im not trying to get with this girl and i really dont care but going out once wont hurt.I also need to grab my balls and meet some girls at malls and other places.Thanks for reading im going back to the bible.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

woah?

You've been chatting with her for 2 yrs and haven't met her in RL?

Isn't that kinda weird? Why, all of a sudden, would you want to meet her? You've been putting it off for soo long that I'm surprised she still wants to meet.

If there is a worst example of not taking initiative, this is it.

you're a man (at least in gender). Act like it.

Grab your balls and shake 'em. Stop pvssy-footing around and get out and do somthing with your life.

Screw the women, for now. Forget this internet skirt you've been chatting with for 2yrs (I can't believe that), and get out there and do something.

Yes, I'm afraid the AFC in you is still lurking around. You might hide it from yourself, but it's definitely there.

Back to the bible? You might wanna stay there for a long time until you get the ideas in your head.
You're worried about making sure you don't pay for her supper? That's the least of your worries, right now.

I think the hardest part will be convincing your mommy to drive you out and pick her up.


The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[intraining]

Yah im going back to reading the dj bible so i wont make stupid post like where should i take my girlfriend after being with her for one month.Yah she still talks to me and wants to hang out but i really dont care because i have the mindset that i dont need a girl.It doesnt hurt to meet one does it? no i didnt think so if she calls me and is in my area ill drive down to the restaurant and chat.I started an aim account to talk to friends when i had a little time off from my busy life not to talk to girls.

 

[DankNuggs]

Dude........Go look in a mirror and slap yourself in the face, tell yourself to wise up....

Do you like girls? This girl won't necessarily help or hurt your life..Nor will any other girls...But if your not seeing anyone, why not give it a chance? You sounds very afraid...or very hurt from the female gender....Forgive and forget all the crap in your life and mental anguish that came from worrying about girls....its all in the past, it can only make you stronger in the future...tell this girl your going to meet up on XXXX and hangout. Then do it.....

 

[Kraken]

It sounds like you're just too scared to intitiate anything with this girl, not that you don't care. You're saying I need to do this, I need to do that, then you mix in a few lines of Bible talk. Whatever.

Just call her and tell her you're taking her out on a date, then maybe you'll actually have a chance to apply some Bible concepts that you're burying your nose in.

 

[intraining]

bump

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Intraining,

The above posters are not your enemies they are actually on your side - take their advice to heart and take some action - you have to start some day! The tongue-lashing is for your benefit.