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  1. Dean Raymond

    Dinner Dates, Coffee, and Drinks

    i think it depends where you meet the women personally. Although saying that, there is alot of dates that are 'free' to go on, walks down the beach, hike. Even a coffee date is no more than £15
  2. Dean Raymond

    Advice on a situation I'm probably overthinking

    just message her saying right lets get this date arranged - when are you free? I wouldn't push too much, judt stay chilled and don't allow your eagerness to cause yourself to say something needy or pushy
  3. Dean Raymond

    Need your advice on how to handle this situation

    I would accept that offer for the new date because she looks like she is telling the truth and she got cold feet. Plus she had enough decency to message you about it rather than just ghost you completely.
  4. Dean Raymond

    I’m a “brown” guy in Europe and I only get foreign girls

    You have alot of limited beliefs here man. Women dont care about ethnicity, they care about how you make them feel. If you dont know how to attrach women in general then your results will be inconsistent.
  5. Dean Raymond

    Random women smiling at you

    Thats an invitation to talk to them.
  6. Dean Raymond

    Who Is The Best To Learn Day Game From?

    Truthfully there isn't a huge difference between day game, night game, coffee shop game, library game in terms of how you need to be feeling within and what you need to be communicating with the woman to get her attracted. Just a little more tact and awareness of the womans reality, and perhaps...
  7. Dean Raymond

    When day cold approaching, it better to be high energy or to be slow/controlled with your speech?

    Shouldn't be talking to her no longer than 30 seconds on a cold approach? Good luck seeing those women again.
  8. Dean Raymond

    What is the most difficult part of meeting/attracting women

    You don't go to malls, bars, clubs, restaurants, events etc?
  9. Dean Raymond

    What is the most difficult part of meeting/attracting women

    Is this a joke mate. If these are the things you are thinking about in relation to how to meet women/people and general, I think there is a lot of inner stuff you need to sort out.
  10. Dean Raymond

    The secret to everything is status

    Do you feel overwhelmed or stiffled in a nightclub environment? These places CAN still be good for meeting women.
  11. Dean Raymond

    It Really Doesnt Matter What Your Opener Is

    I don't think it matters whether you are a chad or not. Women respond to positive and dominant vibe which are signalled through a great move and strong subcommunications. I have seena multitude of different types of guys doing great with women, and they don't think about what openers to use.
  12. Dean Raymond

    What is the most difficult part of meeting/attracting women

    This could be something technical or it could be your general vibe. Do you mind if I ask you what your day to day life and activities look like?
  13. Dean Raymond

    What is the most difficult part of meeting/attracting women

    Main problem for most guys tbh
  14. Dean Raymond

    What is the most difficult part of meeting/attracting women

    I was being thick and didn't know how to create a poll properly on here haha
  15. Dean Raymond

    What is the most difficult part of meeting/attracting women

    You mean that you go out hoping that women approach you?
  16. Dean Raymond

    What is the most difficult part of meeting/attracting women

    Agree. Especially when the advice is vague or useless
  17. Dean Raymond

    What is the most difficult part of meeting/attracting women

    1. Initial approach (approach anxiety and haze) 3. Knowing what to say 3. Transition anxiety (getting physical or moving to an instant date) 4. Asking for the number 5. Building chemistry and connection 6. Flake prevention 7. Beginning a sexual relationship What are your personal...
  18. Dean Raymond

    Number Closed but No Response

    Emotional investment from the girl is what determines whether she replies or sees you again
  19. Dean Raymond

    Advice after second date

    What is happening is that you are freezing up and getting "transition anxiety". This can happen if you aren't experienced at getting physical with a woman, and sometimes you will either too in your head to notice the signs or the woman won't be giving much a way. The only way to get good at...
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